This will be the last time I speak on this matter. I do not want anyone to mention their names or bring them up again (and any comments bringing either the minors, adults or the 21 year old person will be deleted)
I want to apologize if my words came off harsh and I do not want anyone to go harass or bully them like I said on my preivous posts, but I raised my concerns as an adult, and I stand by the fact that the situation needed to be addressed. I do agree that what other adults said in the NSFW channel that included minors was completely inappropriate, even if it only happened once that shouldn't have happened in the first place. I also acknowledge that those adults took accountability for their actions.
However, the server owner and adult 21 year old person should have taken responsibility by stepping in immediately : issuing bans, placing warnings and actively protecting the minors in that space instead of ruining away and giving ownership to minors. That responsibility cannot be ignored.
My intention was never to create drama. I only wanted to spread awareness about what happened and emphasize that avoiding the issue or running away from accountability is not the right response. Situations like this require direct action and ownership.
I also want to make one last thing very clear : the children in that server should not be apologizing. None of this was their fault. They are kids who, sadly, discovered Danganronpa at a young age and found comfort in it just like I did when I was a minor. They did nothing wrong by being fans or seeking for a community, like I said they sadly discovered that media too early.I genuinely hope those kids are safe, taking care of themselves and that they continue to be cautious and stay away from adult NSFW spaces meant for adults only.
My only hope is that the server in question will be closed or properly managed moving forward to prevent any further harm and to ensure the safety of the kids involved in it.
You want to be a vtuber yet you allowed a 12-year-old into your 14+ server calling them "your friend", maintained an NSFW channel in one of your servers a space that included MINORS, normalized inappropriate behavior instead of shutting it down immediately. When I and friends of mine raised concerns about you befriending 12 to 14 year-olds children/pre-teens, you address it head-on by agreeing and yet putting yourself as a victim then you just tried to left, mostly shifted blame on someone else for giving advices rather than owning your role as an adult and owner of your own server. I cannot imagine if nobody spoke about this you would have still normalized it and think that befriend children as an adult is an ok thing to do when its not.
What makes this worse is that after these situations, you leaned into emotional vulnerability in ways that prompted minors from those servers to comfort you, even when you were the one at fault. That’s not healthy and it’s not appropriate adult behavior.
Setting boundaries after being called out isn’t growth unless it’s paired with responsibility and changed behavior. If you genuinely want to improve and “be better”,then starts with acknowledging past actions, not rewriting the narrative to center yourself as the wronged party.
Saying that adults shouldn’t interact with kids while previously doing exactly and got called out for doesn’t make you principled : it makes your statement inconsistent. Growth requires honesty, not deflection.
Oh and btw if I was you, when announcing something as big as wanting to be a vtuber I would reread and recheck myself twice before writing “21-year-olds should be interacting with 13-year-olds,” cause that statement even if it was a small mistake rings hollow when you’ve repeatedly broken your own boundaries.
Accountability matters Wisteria. (Ofc I do not tolerate bullying or harassment to them in any kind,ways,shape or form, they did bad stuff but bullying is never the answer.)
Guys you don't have to ask me every time if you can make fanarts of my oc JUST DO ITTTTTT AND TAG ME SO I SEE THEM/SHARE THEM I WOULD LOVE TO SEE U GUYS FANARTS 🩷🩷🩷🙏🥺
IF YOU SAW MY LAST RECENT SHORT, @Eggydgrp DREW A LIL CHIBI SILLY OF MY YUKINA TEEHEE I LOVE IT SM AGAIN TYSMMUCH EGGY FOR DRAWING HER WAAAA SHES JUST SO CUTEEEEE I LOVE IT SMMMM IMMA CHERISH IT 4EVAAAAA🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🥹🥹🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
-MEL !!!
This will be the last time I speak on this matter. I do not want anyone to mention their names or bring them up again (and any comments bringing either the minors, adults or the 21 year old person will be deleted)
I want to apologize if my words came off harsh and I do not want anyone to go harass or bully them like I said on my preivous posts, but I raised my concerns as an adult, and I stand by the fact that the situation needed to be addressed. I do agree that what other adults said in the NSFW channel that included minors was completely inappropriate, even if it only happened once that shouldn't have happened in the first place. I also acknowledge that those adults took accountability for their actions.
However, the server owner and adult 21 year old person should have taken responsibility by stepping in immediately : issuing bans, placing warnings and actively protecting the minors in that space instead of ruining away and giving ownership to minors. That responsibility cannot be ignored.
My intention was never to create drama. I only wanted to spread awareness about what happened and emphasize that avoiding the issue or running away from accountability is not the right response. Situations like this require direct action and ownership.
I also want to make one last thing very clear : the children in that server should not be apologizing. None of this was their fault. They are kids who, sadly, discovered Danganronpa at a young age and found comfort in it just like I did when I was a minor. They did nothing wrong by being fans or seeking for a community, like I said they sadly discovered that media too early.I genuinely hope those kids are safe, taking care of themselves and that they continue to be cautious and stay away from adult NSFW spaces meant for adults only.
My only hope is that the server in question will be closed or properly managed moving forward to prevent any further harm and to ensure the safety of the kids involved in it.
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-MEL !!!
You want to be a vtuber yet you allowed a 12-year-old into your 14+ server calling them "your friend", maintained an NSFW channel in one of your servers a space that included MINORS, normalized inappropriate behavior instead of shutting it down immediately. When I and friends of mine raised concerns about you befriending 12 to 14 year-olds children/pre-teens, you address it head-on by agreeing and yet putting yourself as a victim then you just tried to left, mostly shifted blame on someone else for giving advices rather than owning your role as an adult and owner of your own server. I cannot imagine if nobody spoke about this you would have still normalized it and think that befriend children as an adult is an ok thing to do when its not.
What makes this worse is that after these situations, you leaned into emotional vulnerability in ways that prompted minors from those servers to comfort you, even when you were the one at fault. That’s not healthy and it’s not appropriate adult behavior.
Setting boundaries after being called out isn’t growth unless it’s paired with responsibility and changed behavior. If you genuinely want to improve and “be better”,then starts with acknowledging past actions, not rewriting the narrative to center yourself as the wronged party.
Saying that adults shouldn’t interact with kids while previously doing exactly and got called out for doesn’t make you principled : it makes your statement inconsistent. Growth requires honesty, not deflection.
Oh and btw if I was you, when announcing something as big as wanting to be a vtuber I would reread and recheck myself twice before writing “21-year-olds should be interacting with 13-year-olds,” cause that statement even if it was a small mistake rings hollow when you’ve repeatedly broken your own boundaries.
Accountability matters Wisteria.
(Ofc I do not tolerate bullying or harassment to them in any kind,ways,shape or form, they did bad stuff but bullying is never the answer.)
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-MEL !!!
ANSWERING TO STRAWPAGES QUESTIONS YAYAYA AND ALSO SHOWING PEAK DRAWINGSSS !!!
Feel free to ask me/send me drawings I need more gimmicks hehe 😈😈😈😈
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-MEL !!!
Guys you don't have to ask me every time if you can make fanarts of my oc JUST DO ITTTTTT AND TAG ME SO I SEE THEM/SHARE THEM I WOULD LOVE TO SEE U GUYS FANARTS 🩷🩷🩷🙏🥺
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-MEL !!!
IF YOU SAW MY LAST RECENT SHORT, @Eggydgrp DREW A LIL CHIBI SILLY OF MY YUKINA TEEHEE I LOVE IT SM AGAIN TYSMMUCH EGGY FOR DRAWING HER WAAAA SHES JUST SO CUTEEEEE I LOVE IT SMMMM IMMA CHERISH IT 4EVAAAAA🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🥹🥹🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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