ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

ABCs of Attraction is the premiere destination for dating advice for sophisticated gentlemen proud of their cultural heritage. The ABCs is more than just learning about conversation and other skills with the opposite sex, it's about learning confidence, charisma and a sense of self-worth so we can be successful in both the boardroom and the bedroom.

Other companies will teach you pickup tricks alone, here we teach self-esteem and confidence is better than any opening line you can feed a woman. After all, if you don't have self-value, how can you convince other women that you're worth it to them.

And this is true in all areas of your life be it work, play or romance. Pickup lines don't translate but self-esteem and confidence do.

Be Successful Because You're An Asian Man... Not In Spite Of It.


ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

Ever felt too short to approach a tall woman? 🎥 Watch here: https://youtu.be/LwVYIJXKA8o
Watch me approach TWO tall blonde women—at a Spring Break bar in Miami—and turn height into an advantage.

This is raw, real, and exactly how you can flip the script.

4 months ago | [YT] | 2

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

We just dropped a crazy NYC infield video where a student went from zero experience to pulling TWO hot college girls in one night. If you love infield content, check it out here → https://youtu.be/qNc04xPDnZA
🔥 What type of videos do you want to see more of?
👇 Vote & let us know in the comments!

5 months ago | [YT] | 1

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

What's the hardest part about approaching a woman for YOU?

Approaching a woman who’s sitting down can feel different from a normal approach. You don’t want to startle her, interrupt, or come off the wrong way. In my latest infield breakdown, I show exactly how to do it smoothly and confidently. Watch here:

📺 https://youtu.be/9IG8SXyUt5Q

What’s the biggest challenge for you in this situation?

6 months ago | [YT] | 0

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

âť“ Do you think the "Oxford Study" on WMAF is being used as a dog whistle?

Some people throw around the so-called "Oxford Study" as if it’s scientific proof that Asian men are inferior in dating. But did you know it’s not even a formal study?

I wanted real answers. So I did something different.

I used Stanford’s Storm AI to compile every Oxford Study article, source, and research on this topic. Then, I fed it into Google’s NotebookLM AI... and what came out was eye-opening.

We turned it into a one-of-a-kind AI podcast video essay that exposes the real history and bias behind WMAF relationships.

📺 Watch it here: Oxford Study: Are WMAF Couples Weird?

What do you think? Is this "study" being used as a dog whistle to push anti-Asian male narratives?

Vote and let’s talk in the comments.

6 months ago | [YT] | 3

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

The Dallas Dating Coach's Guide To The City is LIVE!: https://youtu.be/bO9KMfQB2do

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6 months ago | [YT] | 3

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

🔥 Tinder & Texting Mistakes That Make Women CRINGE 🔥

Most guys are getting it wrong on dating apps, and it’s costing them matches, dates, and attraction. Here’s what you need to know:


đźš« Bad photos = instant left swipe.
95% of guys THINK their photos are good. They’re not.
Selfies, group shots where your hotter friend outshines you, and stiff, posed pics? Trash.
Instead, you need candid lifestyle shots—like a cool action shot or a pic that looks like a friend took it while you were doing something interesting.


đź’¬ Texting like a robot.
If your opener is “Hey, how’s your day?”, you’re already losing.
Try: "Hey, want to steal my comfiest hoodie?" (playful & intriguing)
Or "Swipe right for sexy nerd glasses." (customized to her pics—flirty + fun)


📉 Taking too long to ask her out.
Attraction fades fast in texting. Stop messaging for a week straight.
Instead, go for a soft close early:
"We should get together sometime soon."
"What’s your schedule like?" → "How does Friday night sound?"


If you’re guilty of any of these mistakes, fix them NOW. Alex from Playing With Fire and I break it all down in our latest video.
👉 Watch here: https://youtu.be/l-QhLTXHu6w

6 months ago | [YT] | 3

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

What's your current challenge in dating?



👉 Watch "20 Attraction Triggers I've Used On Women": https://youtu.be/RAnHcfO83Yg

6 months ago | [YT] | 4

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

Check out my guest spot on @gWithFireChannel 's coaching panel as we discuss issues about Asian dating, loyalty and cheating from women, social circle lays, how to deal with anxiety, and much much more!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HORTg...

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 1

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

Would you like a no-risk, free, with no-strings attached Tinder / dating apps profile review by a professional coach? He'd critique your profile and give you actionable advice on how you can start getting more matches and therefore more dates with women every week.

đź’Ą Watch How To Improve Your Dating App Pictures That Will 100X Your Matches:
👉 https://youtu.be/mSu9lvNVIkA

7 months ago | [YT] | 1

ABCs Of Attraction | Asian Dating Coach For Men

How many dating app matches per week do you get from online dating?
🎥 Watch now: https://youtu.be/QROtDjOhFRc
See how 4 students turned endless swiping into real connections, getting 2-4 dates weekly. Learn the system they used and transform your dating life!

7 months ago | [YT] | 3