Nobody’s that worthy to risk ruining your mental health twice There’s nothing to miss out, what you saw on first round is more than enough info you need about that connection Whether it’ll work out for you or not Whether that person’s good for your mental health or not You don’t have to do round two in relationships just to see “maybe this time it’ll work out”
9 out of 10 times It doesn’t. Just manifest to lose feelings for that toxic person and manifest a healthier relationship It’s easier and more possible than staying in an unhealthy relationship and manifesting for it to be healed for 100 times
I blocked some friends thinking they were fake to me cuz they were kinda confusing. Some days they were nice to me. Some days they just didn’t give the ‘nice’ vibes and had this ‘I lowkey hate you’ micro expressions.
Things like this made me spiral into dilemma. I hated it. I hated how they made me feel sometimes. I’ve seen fake friends before. I didn’t wanna wait around and find out and make a fool out of myself. So I blocked them after giving them five chances.
Then in this retrograde, I found out one of them was actually really nice. She wasn’t that close to me. I only gave her two chances and they were kinda blurry. The red flag wasn’t really red. It was more of a brownish red? Maybe it was just brown. And not red. Maybe I just read her wrong. I blocked her quickly with a bunch of other ‘100% sure it’s red’ people. And today I found out that she never had ill intentions towards me. The vibrant redness of other people made me think she might also be red. Ngl it gave me this very humbling self-reflective moment.
Not judging myself. Cuz I know i went through a lot of backstabbings. But it’s just that healing does need more time and reflection. I should double-reflect on my trust issues before I cut some people off. I do like the way I’m quick to burn bridges with anyone, it kinda protects me from unnecessary drama but I also think that if I don’t work on my trust issues, cutting off quickly could develop into self-sabotage. I could lose some really good friends that probably were just having some bad days. And I could hurt feelings of friends that love me genuinely. This is what early 20s feels like, ig.
Open your phone notes app and write down the followings
📁 What is your new identity? Like who do you want them to be? Funny? Fashionable? Popular? Write it down
🪩 What’s the new you’s name? Are you gonna let people call you by it or is it a little secret name of yours? { when I switched from ‘Sweety’ which is the pet name my whole family called me to ‘Cajel’ , I started off with creating email addresses of the new name.. then slowly introduced myself as Cajel to new people }
🛸 whatever life decisions or choices you’re making, ask yourself “would the new me choose this? Or this?” The new you would do things that the old you was scared to do The new you wouldn’t hesitate to cut off toxic friends
🎧 create new playlists What songs would the new you like to listen to? What’s the vibe? Which songs describe the new you?
🌪️ what’s the new you’s lifestyle? Luxurious? Private? Influencer lavish lifestyle? If you wanna be an influencer, then you have to start making contents (at least one) each day Start small to slowly transform
📱 create sub playlist New you is pretty? Ok glow up pretty subs What type of pretty? Is it mysterious alluring megan fox type of pretty? Or cutesy pink wonyoung type of pretty? New you is rich? Ok get some money subs in there New you is popular? Get some social followers subs in there Listen them with boosters or reality shifting subs
♟️ it’s a long-term game so be patient. There are people who get their results overnight but if you don’t, that’s ok. Keep being consistent with it
🎮 don’t do this for your beloved crush/ex/partner/sp or anyone. Live for yourself Change for yourself 🎀
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Nobody’s that worthy to risk ruining your mental health twice
There’s nothing to miss out, what you saw on first round is more than enough info you need about that connection
Whether it’ll work out for you or not
Whether that person’s good for your mental health or not
You don’t have to do round two in relationships just to see “maybe this time it’ll work out”
9 out of 10 times
It doesn’t.
Just manifest to lose feelings for that toxic person and manifest a healthier relationship
It’s easier and more possible than staying in an unhealthy relationship and manifesting for it to be healed for 100 times
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If you’re seeing this, August is gonna be full of romance for you 🫦
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Manifesting wallpaper
- get money
- get love
- get wisdom
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May my girls receive money asap
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Just sharing 🌸
I blocked some friends thinking they were fake to me cuz they were kinda confusing. Some days they were nice to me. Some days they just didn’t give the ‘nice’ vibes and had this ‘I lowkey hate you’ micro expressions.
Things like this made me spiral into dilemma. I hated it. I hated how they made me feel sometimes. I’ve seen fake friends before. I didn’t wanna wait around and find out and make a fool out of myself. So I blocked them after giving them five chances.
Then in this retrograde, I found out one of them was actually really nice. She wasn’t that close to me. I only gave her two chances and they were kinda blurry. The red flag wasn’t really red. It was more of a brownish red? Maybe it was just brown. And not red. Maybe I just read her wrong. I blocked her quickly with a bunch of other ‘100% sure it’s red’ people. And today I found out that she never had ill intentions towards me. The vibrant redness of other people made me think she might also be red. Ngl it gave me this very humbling self-reflective moment.
Not judging myself. Cuz I know i went through a lot of backstabbings. But it’s just that healing does need more time and reflection. I should double-reflect on my trust issues before I cut some people off. I do like the way I’m quick to burn bridges with anyone, it kinda protects me from unnecessary drama but I also think that if I don’t work on my trust issues, cutting off quickly could develop into self-sabotage. I could lose some really good friends that probably were just having some bad days. And I could hurt feelings of friends that love me genuinely. This is what early 20s feels like, ig.
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I love u 🫦
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I love these type of themes
Dark and neon-ish 💗
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Should I change this as YouTube profile picture?? 🎀
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Hi
Since I see a lot of comments asking “where can I dm you?”
Here is my instagram 💗
I don’t do customization subs
But u can dm for questions, 🎀 making friends with me, 👻 flirting with me (girls only), ✨ buying premium subs and so on.
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The New You 🩶
Open your phone notes app and write down the followings
📁 What is your new identity? Like who do you want them to be?
Funny? Fashionable? Popular?
Write it down
🪩 What’s the new you’s name? Are you gonna let people call you by it or is it a little secret name of yours?
{ when I switched from ‘Sweety’ which is the pet name my whole family called me to ‘Cajel’ , I started off with creating email addresses of the new name.. then slowly introduced myself as Cajel to new people }
🛸 whatever life decisions or choices you’re making, ask yourself “would the new me choose this? Or this?”
The new you would do things that the old you was scared to do
The new you wouldn’t hesitate to cut off toxic friends
🎧 create new playlists
What songs would the new you like to listen to? What’s the vibe? Which songs describe the new you?
🌪️ what’s the new you’s lifestyle?
Luxurious? Private? Influencer lavish lifestyle?
If you wanna be an influencer, then you have to start making contents (at least one) each day
Start small to slowly transform
📱 create sub playlist
New you is pretty? Ok glow up pretty subs
What type of pretty? Is it mysterious alluring megan fox type of pretty? Or cutesy pink wonyoung type of pretty?
New you is rich? Ok get some money subs in there
New you is popular? Get some social followers subs in there
Listen them with boosters or reality shifting subs
♟️ it’s a long-term game so be patient. There are people who get their results overnight but if you don’t, that’s ok. Keep being consistent with it
🎮 don’t do this for your beloved crush/ex/partner/sp or anyone.
Live for yourself
Change for yourself 🎀
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