For the first time in my life that I feel so unavailable... that I feel so happy for standing up for myself!
Ok let me tell you a little of my story, growing up wasn't too sweet, I admired people who were doing well so much that every night, I would ask God "when...?"
Oh my God... I was that only friend who was always asking friends for their contacts, trying to check up on them. "Emilia I need some cash, can you borrow me", I would definitely go out of my way to support but I never got same love. I became too available that some began to feel Emilia wasn't their class (don't quote me, I had a few good ones though).
Years later, I stopped asking anyone how far, I deleted all contacts of everyone who made me feel less of myself. I took the time to start building myself, my career and the story changed!
Recently, I started meeting same set of friends again but this time, it's not how it used to be. A lot has happened. I changed class, I carefully selected people who deserve to be there. It's not pride, I just understood my worth, I just understood the power of being unavailable.
Now, they want us to be how we used to be, but i am now too busy to be available. So, I met one of them who used to feel so much of the boss lady back then, she saw me, 30 minutes wasn't enough for her to finish steering at the changes but she was still seeing the old Emilia. She was waiting for me to run over, hug her and ask her how have you been, can I have your contact, what can I help you with?
Hmmm.. Unfortunately, change happened. I was the one who did the snubbing this time. After few minutes of steering, she ran over to the car to pause me: "Emilia how are you, you have really changed, you didn't even notice me, didn't you miss our friendship, can I have your new contact so that we can hang out and catch up with the latest? I have many gists for you. "
I simply and politely replied, "change is constant, it's just a matter of choosing your type of change: positive or negative. I would have loved us to meet but I'm now very busy and unavailable!"
She stood and watched till I was no where seen in the tin air! I felt a cold breeze of comfort. I felt like a queen
1οΈβ£ Create or Learn: This weekend, pick an income stream to start or a skill to learn. π
2οΈβ£ Save to Win: Save like someone who wants to win. Your future self will thank you. βΊ
3οΈβ£ Invest to Grow: When it starts yielding, invest like someone who will never want to go back to square one. π€ Small steps today = big wins tomorrow.
Emilia Davids
For the first time in my life that I feel so unavailable... that I feel so happy for standing up for myself!
Ok let me tell you a little of my story, growing up wasn't too sweet, I admired people who were doing well so much that every night, I would ask God "when...?"
Oh my God... I was that only friend who was always asking friends for their contacts, trying to check up on them. "Emilia I need some cash, can you borrow me", I would definitely go out of my way to support but I never got same love. I became too available that some began to feel Emilia wasn't their class (don't quote me, I had a few good ones though).
Years later, I stopped asking anyone how far, I deleted all contacts of everyone who made me feel less of myself. I took the time to start building myself, my career and the story changed!
Recently, I started meeting same set of friends again but this time, it's not how it used to be. A lot has happened. I changed class, I carefully selected people who deserve to be there. It's not pride, I just understood my worth, I just understood the power of being unavailable.
Now, they want us to be how we used to be, but i am now too busy to be available. So, I met one of them who used to feel so much of the boss lady back then, she saw me, 30 minutes wasn't enough for her to finish steering at the changes but she was still seeing the old Emilia. She was waiting for me to run over, hug her and ask her how have you been, can I have your contact, what can I help you with?
Hmmm.. Unfortunately, change happened. I was the one who did the snubbing this time. After few minutes of steering, she ran over to the car to pause me: "Emilia how are you, you have really changed, you didn't even notice me, didn't you miss our friendship, can I have your new contact so that we can hang out and catch up with the latest? I have many gists for you. "
I simply and politely replied, "change is constant, it's just a matter of choosing your type of change: positive or negative. I would have loved us to meet but I'm now very busy and unavailable!"
She stood and watched till I was no where seen in the tin air! I felt a cold breeze of comfort. I felt like a queen
Build yourself and your career!
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Emilia Davids
3 Strategies To Build a Financially Happy Life:
1οΈβ£ Create or Learn: This weekend, pick an income stream to start or a skill to learn. π
2οΈβ£ Save to Win: Save like someone who wants to win. Your future self will thank you. βΊ
3οΈβ£ Invest to Grow: When it starts yielding, invest like someone who will never want to go back to square one. π€
Small steps today = big wins tomorrow.
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