Welcome to Coffee with Carey—where we talk about dating, relationships, and all the weird, funny, hopeful stuff that happens when grown-ups try to find connection.
I’m Carey. I’m a dating coach and matchmaker with over a decade of real-world experience — not someone who crowned themselves a dating expert after two messy breakups and a $39 lighting kit from Amazon. I teach what I know and that’s from working with thousands of clients over the years.
This channel is for anyone who’s ever been ghosted by someone they weren’t even sure they liked, spent an hour writing a thoughtful message only to get “lol,” in response, or needed a reminder that texting someone “Good morning” doesn’t make them your soulmate.
You’re not doing it wrong. But you may be doing it wrong. Check out an episode or two and let’s figure it out.
Oh, and if you need something more personal? The link is around here somewhere.
Warmly,
Carey
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Be honest: What’s way more valuable than a "spark"?
Drop your hot takes in the comments—are you team 'spark' or team 'sanity'?
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Your biggest app fatigue comes from:
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What actually takes the longest before a date?
1 week ago | [YT] | 35
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What makes you feel “ready” to date again?
1 week ago | [YT] | 35
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When does early dating start wearing you out?
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What do you do when someone you’re dating pulls back?
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Which first date format do you actually prefer?
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 56
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Mom reached out today.
She said she doesn't want flowers or another coffee cup for Mother's Day. She wants me to put my masterclass on sale for all the moms out there.
I said, okay Mom, how about 30% off? She said, how about 60? I said 40?
We compromised at her number, which is how every negotiation with my mother has ever gone.
Be Your Own Matchmaker is 60% off through Mother's Day.
The full seven-module masterclass, regularly $1,500, is yours for $600 through Mother's Day. (or 3 payments of $200)
If you've been watching the videos and thinking maybe one day, this is one day. Because you don't need me to find you a match. You just need to know everything I know.
Sale runs through Mother's Day.
Because she said so.
👉 www.beyourownmatchmaker.com
xo
Carey
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What’s your “tell” that you’re actually interested?
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Biggest first-date dealbreaker?
4 weeks ago | [YT] | 57
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