Coffee with Carey
Welcome to Coffee with Carey—where we talk about dating, relationships, and all the weird, funny, hopeful stuff that happens when grown-ups try to find connection.
I’m Carey. I’m a dating coach and matchmaker with over a decade of real-world experience — not someone who crowned themselves a dating expert after two messy breakups and a $39 lighting kit from Amazon. I teach what I know and that’s from working with thousands of clients over the years.
This channel is for anyone who’s ever been ghosted by someone they weren’t even sure they liked, spent an hour writing a thoughtful message only to get “lol,” in response, or needed a reminder that texting someone “Good morning” doesn’t make them your soulmate.
You’re not doing it wrong. But you may be doing it wrong. Check out an episode or two and let’s figure it out.
Oh, and if you need something more personal? The link is around here somewhere.
Warmly,
Carey
Coffee with Carey
Matchmakers don’t get dazzled by surface stuff. But until my course is out and you become your own Matchmaker — what’s the thing that still distracts you anyway?
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Mom selected a subscriber named Melissa on Tuesday after her birthday dinner and I sent an email, notifying her that she had won the coaching session.
Melissa, if you didn’t receive the email, but believe yourself to be the person/subscriber who downloaded both the free guide to Meeting People in the Wild and the 33 Great Questions send me a message. I’m not sharing your email address here but I know the address I sent notification to and will recognize you easily.
If I haven’t heard back from Melissa after a week which would be on the 13th I will select the new winner!
4 days ago | [YT] | 42
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Guy at the gas station asked if I had a man. I responded, “I am a man.” He drove off so quickly! Guess who’s not getting kidnapped today!! 🙋🏻♀️
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When it comes to romance, which simple gesture feels the most meaningful to you?
5 days ago | [YT] | 38
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You feel drawn to someone when…
1 week ago | [YT] | 47
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They suggest a second date before the first one ends. You think…
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🥳Tuesday is my Mom’s Birthday! 🎁💐
I’m going to make her dinner on Tuesday evening and while she is here, I will have her choose the winner to our free coaching session. Just wanted to give you a heads up that all rules apply. I’m just switching up the day that Mom will select the winner.
She hasn’t been here this week, but is for sure coming over for a delicious birthday dinner on the 6th! 👍
After I feed her a lobster pasta dish with broccoli and a small salad I will come back here and let you know which of you needs to coordinate their calendar with me.
Here’s the recipe in case you were interested
www.allrecipes.com/we-tried-trader-joes-lobster-pa…
1 week ago | [YT] | 46
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✨Happy New Year! ✨
What a year we’ve had together in 2024 - thank you so much for your support, for showing up, for being part of this community.
i’m not making resolutions, but I’ve definitely got some plans on the agenda and some things I want to accomplish in the new year.
As we head into 2026, what’s the one thing you’re determined to do differently in your dating life?
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I posted “What Women Notice on a First Date” first — it’s been live for 14 days and has 10K views.
Two days later, I posted “What Men Notice on a First Date” — it’s been live for 12 days and has 48K views.
Here’s what I’m genuinely curious about: The “What Men Notice” episode has 500+ more comments, and they’re almost all from MEN!
But guys… the episode about what WOMEN notice was meant for YOU to learn from. So why are you commenting on the wrong video?
1 week ago | [YT] | 23
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You feel curious about someone (in a good way) when:
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 34
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