Welcome to Coffee with Carey—where we talk about dating, relationships, and all the weird, funny, hopeful stuff that happens when grown-ups try to find connection.
I’m Carey. I’m a dating coach and matchmaker with over a decade of real-world experience — not someone who crowned themselves a dating expert after two messy breakups and a $39 lighting kit from Amazon. I teach what I know and that’s from working with thousands of clients over the years.
This channel is for anyone who’s ever been ghosted by someone they weren’t even sure they liked, spent an hour writing a thoughtful message only to get “lol,” in response, or needed a reminder that texting someone “Good morning” doesn’t make them your soulmate.
You’re not doing it wrong. But you may be doing it wrong. Check out an episode or two and let’s figure it out.
Oh, and if you need something more personal? The link is around here somewhere.
Warmly,
Carey
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Worst thing to hear on a first date?
16 hours ago | [YT] | 32
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Monica’s feedback on the masterclass hasn’t hit the landing page yet, but her sense of humor was too good not to share today.
“Who would’ve thought that at 56, I’d become a Matchmaker?! Sure, I only have one client, but a very important one! I love that I was able to throw away all my old research on matchmakers. It turns out I’m the one for me!”
This is what happens when you stop waiting for someone else to solve your love life and follow a step-by-step plan to find your person.
Save the $25,000 matchmaking fee and learn to
Be Your Own Matchmaker!
👇 www.beyourownmatchmaker.com
2 days ago | [YT] | 25
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What’s your honest reaction to a really good profile?
3 days ago | [YT] | 34
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What do you wish someone had told you before your first date back?
1 week ago | [YT] | 48
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Which version of yourself shows up on first dates?
1 week ago | [YT] | 46
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"I hadn’t been on a date in over 40 years. I honestly didn’t think a course like this was meant for someone like me. But I went through it and something shifted. I was excited to date again. Those are words I never thought I’d say, but I’ve been seeing a wonderful woman for four months now."
I haven’t been able to stop thinking about this message from Paul. He was one of my beta testers back in January, and seeing that "shift" happen for him is exactly why I built Be Your Own Matchmaker.
I spent 13 years as a professional matchmaker. They paid me $25,000 to do the work for them.
I realized that most people don't need a $25k middleman, they just need the roadmap I use to find those matches. I’ve taken everything I’ve learned in over a decade and put it into this masterclass so you can get the same results on your own, without the concierge price tag.
If you’re ready to stop wondering if there’s anyone left out there for you, let’s get to work.
Start here:
👉 BeYourOwnMatchmaker.com/
1 week ago | [YT] | 31
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What’s your honest relationship with dating apps right now?
1 week ago | [YT] | 40
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Which green flag actually excites you now?
1 week ago | [YT] | 32
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After a great first date your inner monologue is…
2 weeks ago | [YT] | 42
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