You know yourself best.

I love this question.

I don’t believe in the idea of right person wrong time.

Blindside breakups are the worst. I’m so sorry.

There’s no perfect timeline for knowing what you want

When we call someone a bad texter, what we often mean is that they don’t text the way we do.

We start our weekly stand-ups with logistics.

One thing that helped me

I’m so proud of you for not letting little annoyances pile up into bigger issues

Getting what you want can be terrifying, and that’s completely normal.

Please don’t wait for this person.

If you’re genuinely not looking forward to seeing someone again, that’s your answer.

If you tend to go for people who are unavailable emotionally or logistically

If you’re looking for a relationship, honor that.

Until you talk about being exclusive, you’re not.

Oof. A lie like this hits differently.

If you feel anxious about how fast things are moving, that’s a sign.

Meeting someone's best friend on the second date?

For the longest time, I thought people kept losing interest a few dates in.

Should you respond?

This is your tough love reminder.

the moments that made me feel closest weren’t big romantic gestures

It’s true someone’s mental health might keep them from being able to invest in a relationship.

Yes - you absolutely can.

Divorce isn’t easy, and it should be a well-thought-out decision versus the first choice

My heart goes out to anyone in this situation—it’s so hard to navigate.

Accepting compliments can feel so hard - especially for women

If you wear wigs often, you don’t need to disclose that upfront.

When Skyline and I first talked about kids, I mentioned right away that I’d frozen my eggs

When you talk with your partner about dividing chores, don’t just split up the tasks

If you’ve learned that the person you’re seeing isn’t dating anyone else

This is so exciting—nothing compares to that giddy feeling

A big mindset shift for me was learning to trust my future self.

I’m such a big advocate for couples therapy *early on*—before it feels necessary.

I’ve been in this exact spot

If someone is being *overly* effusive really early on, it can feel like love bombing

So exciting—you’re talking about moving in together!

Absolutely yes. If you’re feeling it, I encourage you to express it.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sending you so much love.

Cut them loose. I don’t usually speak in absolutes, but this is one of those times.

If you feel ready to be intimate with someone, you should also feel comfortable talking about what m

Congratulations on your new relationship—this is such an exciting time!

I’ve experienced it myself—a spark can grow.

Just because someone doesn’t text a ton between dates doesn’t mean they’re not interested.

If someone suggests a date activity you’re not into, you don’t have to just go along with it—

I strongly believe that if someone cancels a first date, they should be the one to reschedule.

Most of my New York City date ideas come straight from social media.

For me, butterflies usually meant anxiety—not romance.