If you're a father fighting for custody of your kids in family court, then you've come to the right place. Is divorce court treating you like a second-class citizen with inferior parenting rights to your children? I'm creating this educational series to help dads like you prepare for family court.
I'm a dad who won my child custody case and became our son's primary custodial parent. It took extraordinary effort.
I know it can all feel hopeless. Thus, I'm going public and telling you the strategies I used in my child custody case and what I learned...so that you can get up to speed quickly.
Fathers: you need to plan, plan, plan, for your custody case. Or else you get steamrolled.
You're not a second-class citizen. You have equal rights to parent your child. But you need to fight just to be considered equal.
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Father X: How Fathers Can Win Custody
We need a process where family court judges can be held in contempt of court. See clip below.
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What a disastrous thing to tell a child...."your other parent doesn't really care about you like I do".
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Father X: How Fathers Can Win Custody
Family law and the appellate courts require family court judges to make custody decisions in the best interest of the child.
➡️But I've never seen a law that says, "For temporary orders, in your first 15 minute court appearance, it's okay to ignore the best interests of the child and just give the mom default primary custody to start".
Have you?
So why do judges do that?
➡️We need to start with equal shared parenting until somebody comes up with intelligent analysis as to why that's not best for this child in this case.
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Family court: Guilt By Accusation. ⬇️
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After realizing my family court judge was ignoring the best interests of our son, in order to just rubberstamp the mom for custody, I set out on a mission to counter and control my judge's bias. I ended up getting primary custody of our son.
Now, I teach other dads how to do it. Is it working?
Hear what other dads are saying about my YouTube videos for Dads in family court:
👉🏼"And your videos man, the way they help me sort out my evidence, what to gather, how to present it, the confidence builder watching them. Your videos do a great service. Thank you!"
👉🏼"Your message and lessons have and are helping carry me through my court challenges with my son's mother. What I find to be most important in your messages is that we are a community of fathers, and persisting through our dark moments can develop into a light that others can use on their path, including our children. Real talk. Thank you, Father X."
Now it's your turn. If you're a dad in family court, fighting for your kids, find me on youtube, spotify, or apple podcasts.
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Want to know what's wrong with child support? See the clip below ⬇️
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📢In Case You Missed It, The Journey of a Thousand Miles ⬇️
Recapping 2025: A Breakthrough Year for Men and Boys Worldwide
PRESS RELEASE
G. Lawrence DeMarco, LLM, info@menandboys.net
2025: A Breakthrough Year for Men and Boys Worldwide
December 17, 2025 – In 2025, a global movement gained momentum as the International Council for Men and Boys (ICMB) and its allies advanced a new conversation on male disadvantage through declarations, campaigns, and coordinated advocacy.
The year was highlighted by release of the New York Declaration for Men and Boys, a pivotal document that affirms the universal right of men and boys to equality in education, health, family life, and legal protections (1). Unveiled on March 12, the Declaration was endorsed by a range of human rights advocates, including by women worldwide (2).
The men’s health agenda saw significant advances:
👉🏼International Men’s Health Week was observed in June with record participation.
👉🏼Men’s mental health - long relegated to a policy blind spot - enjoyed significant coverage in June (3)(4).
👉🏼Lawmakers introduced legislation to promote father involvement in early childhood and maternal care (5).
👉🏼Renewed attention to prostate cancer(6).
👉🏼Introduction of the first-ever men’s health strategy in the United Kingdom (7).
In July, ICMB marked another milestone with coordinated efforts supporting equal shared parenting—a fundamental reform tied to child well-being, educational equity, and family justice (8). Policy statements and campaigns emphasized the benefits of joint parenting arrangements (9).
The same month saw the release of a new academic volume challenging the myth that only women are victims of domestic violence, breaking long-standing stereotypes (10).
In November, the second annual Men’s Equality Month brought a unifying energy to this global movement. Throughout the month, conferences, media panels, and roundtables were held in 22 countries, focusing on collaborative solutions, unity between genders, and the foundational role of men in families and societies (11).
A November gathering in the United States reflected a growing willingness within mainstream policy forums to engage men’s issues more directly (12).
As the year concluded, ICMB unveiled a comprehensive reform platform—18 High-Impact, Cost-Efficient Strategies to Reduce Male Disparities (13). These proposals offer policymakers a roadmap to address structural inequalities in education, legal systems, family courts, homelessness, domestic violence services, and health access—without the need for massive new spending.
ICMB’s vision is clear: justice for men and boys must be part of the global equality agenda, as male voters are calling for reform (14). We invite:
👉🏼Media to report inclusively on gender disparities,
👉🏼Policymakers to implement evidence-based reforms, and
👉🏼Citizens to join the movement for gender justice—#GenderEqualityForMen.
The original press release, with footnote citations, can be found here:
www.menandboys.net/pr/2025-a-breakthrough-year-for…
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I make educational videos to help dads navigate our flawed family court system. One dad wanted to share his testimonial. ⬇️⬇️
"Your content has been extremely helpful in my situation. I beat the domestic violence allegations, and filed some stuff to protect the kids from 3rd party abuse/discipline, then had mediation yesterday.
She was fighting for every other weekend and getting hung up on stupid things. I kept it focused on custody. Got it all Hammered out.
50/50 equal time, and all the other provisions I want. The mediator gave her a little peek into what we have for going to trial, that pulled her out of her cognitive dissonance and back into reality.
Now it's time to move on to phase 2, which I will not discuss publicly at the moment...
Summary and synopsis: Systematically disarmed her of all levers of control and manipulation, and the biggest bargaining chips are off the table."
What about you? Are you the next dad who'll learn from my content? Will you take the steps to stay in your kids' lives, instead of falling victim to the status quo of dads being made alternate weekend visitors?
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Family court isn’t about truth. It’s about framing.
➡️One bad email.
➡️One missed pickup.
➡️One emotional reaction.
👉🏼That’s all it takes to label you a “bad father.”
This is why I wrote “Dads: Build Your Defensive Fortress for Family Court”. It teaches you how to anticipate the traps set by the mother, the lawyers, and the judge…and how to shut them down before they cost you custody.
If you’re already in court, you’re already under attack.
Time to defend yourself.
Get it at my Lemon Squeezy website below ⬇️
What Are Others Saying About It?
📢"This is so completely true, especially tip #3 & #5 ("SYSTEM LOOKOUT" in Canada). Recordings, this saved me. But honestly, everything is gold."
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📢I can't stress it enough: Family Court Judges CAN NOT compete with intelligent thought.
They're in the bottom 20-35% of IQ.
So you don't need to be a genius to outmaneuver them.
You just need to learn their profession better than they know it.
👉🏼And I teach you that with 15 hours of videos on YT (and Spotify). Or you can get my eBooks on Lemon Squeezy.
👉🏼Imagine that: 2 days of training...or 2 weeks if you watch an hour a day. And you can start outperforming your judge.
Why do I do this? Because our kids need a better solution than what family court offers.
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