✨ you were thinking it, but I said it. ✨

This channel is an unapologetic safe space for Black women navigating self-love, mindset shifts, confidence, boundaries, and personal growth—without fake positivity or watered-down advice.

Here, we talk about the real-real: healing out loud, protecting your peace, softening without shrinking, and building a life that feels aligned—not performative. Expect honest conversations on self-worth, emotional maturity, ambition, relationships, productivity, and evolving into your highest self on your terms.

This isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention. We upgrade our mindset, root ourselves in self-love, and move with clarity, grace, and discernment—one season at a time.

You don’t have to shrink, settle, or suffer to be successful and loved.

Your new chapter starts here.
Luke 6:45 ♡ Matthew 7:7


lilianshekinah

No live today!! I’ll be back tomorrow & make the live up!!!

2 days ago | [YT] | 1

lilianshekinah

Hey family 🤍 I’ll be taking today off to focus on my health. Thank you so much for your patience and understanding. I’ll be back tomorrow afternoon with a livestream—looking forward to being with you then.

If you missed it, yesterday we posted two livestreams back-to-back that really set the foundation for the conversation we’re having around community, loneliness, and independence:

📌 What ACTUALLY happened to our villages?
A light but informative historical breakdown of the forces that disrupted our communal structures and why many of us feel the absence of strong community today.
👉 youtube.com/live/OFbmvopwkXo?feature=share

📌 Why we are thriving in community
A deeper discussion on why and how Black women continue to thrive in community—especially community that does not center romantic partnership.
👉 youtube.com/live/F_XmzvYgbCA?feature=share

Both of these livestreams were a direct response to my earlier video:
“Being told you’ll end up alone isn’t the insult you think it is”—where we talked about how women are doing okay and don’t need romantic relationships to feel whole or fulfilled.

After a comment, I wanted to go further and explore the real factors behind why we lack community today, beyond just technology—and that’s where this conversation is headed next.

Resting today, returning tomorrow. Thank you for being here and growing with me 💛

1 week ago | [YT] | 4

lilianshekinah

I’m officially on the road visiting family for the holidays! While I’m traveling, the live streams will be a little different — expect IRL vibes, funny moments, and real-life chaos 😄

We’ll dive back into our deeper conversations and regular topics in the new year, refreshed and ready.

If you missed them (or want a rewatch), check out my latest lives:

✨ Can Women Have It All? Let’s Talk Love, Success, Ego & Power…
👉 youtube.com/live/D2LSkpgiH00?feature=share

🎬 From the Red Carpet to Real Life: Life Lessons Celebs Gave Us in 2025…
👉 youtube.com/live/Ku8TR7KnJhs?feature=share

💫 My 2025 Wrapped | Honest Reflection & 2026 Goals
👉 youtube.com/live/jkphpDK8-OQ?feature=share

Thank you for being here, for the support all year, and for growing with me. Wishing you love, rest, and joy this holiday season — see you IRL very soon and back in full swing in the New Year ❤️

1 month ago | [YT] | 3

lilianshekinah

🎉 Hey fam! Just a quick update 💛

I'm currently spending some time with my family (much-needed and so special 🥰), but I wanted to let you know that I’ll be going LIVE tomorrow — Saturday, 7/5 at 1PM Central for a very fun stream:

🎥 LIVE: I Heard BLONDES Have More Fun? | Natural Hair Transformation

I’ll be dyeing my natural hair honey blonde LIVE and taking you with me every step of the way 👱🏽‍♀️✨ Come hang out in the chat, ask your questions, and witness the glow-up in real time!

After this stream, we’ll be back to our regular scheduled programming 🎬 So don’t worry — more great content is on the way!

💬 In the meantime, drop any video topic requests or questions in the comments — I’d love to hear what you want to see next!

Wishing you all a fun and safe Fourth of July!

See you soon! 💛

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 2

lilianshekinah

Happy Sunday! 🌞This week was all about choosing you—even when the world doesn’t understand your journey.

💔 MONDAY:
You weren’t there for me...but now you’re MAD I made it without you?
➡️ youtube.com/live/u6MV7_L-u4M?feature=share

🫣 WEDNESDAY:
How to stay SANE when the world is *literally* on Fire..
➡️ youtube.com/live/Pr20UTEA4rc?feature=share

🧘🏽‍♀️ FRIDAY:
You’ve been consuming chaos... Now let’s reclaim your HAPPINESS & PEACE!
➡️ youtube.com/live/jw1xiBlrTfY?feature=share

7 months ago | [YT] | 2

lilianshekinah

Whew, what a week! We dug deep into the real, raw, and necessary convos around mental health, especially for Black women. ICYMI, here’s a quick recap:

🧠 MONDAY: “The LAST straw… Sis, you good?”
We kicked off with a powerful look at burnout, breaking points, and the quiet unraveling so many Black women face while holding it all together. Let this be your reminder: You don’t have to carry it all.
📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/ep9NRzLZ7kw

😂 WEDNESDAY: “Laughing Through the Load: Black Women & Mental Wellness”
We got real about how humor can be both a shield and a salve. Black women have long used laughter to cope—but at what cost?
📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/-5yaXumsLpQ

🌞 FRIDAY: “True happiness is the REAL flex”
Joy is not just a luxury—it’s a choice and a form of resistance. This episode reminded us how to reach for light even when life is life-ing.
📺 Watch here: https://youtu.be/6sLEq56ocDc

Let’s keep this conversation going. Drop your thoughts, favorite moments, or what resonated most this week. 💬👇🏾
#MentalHealthMatters #BlackWomenHealing #StrawsFilm #ChooseJoy

7 months ago | [YT] | 1

lilianshekinah

⭐️HAPPY FATHER'S DAY! Just in case you missed last week's livestreams⬇️

✅ MONDAY: Propaganda I'm NOT falling for... in Love & Life
youtube.com/live/wwOPVSraSOo?feature=share

✅ WEDNESDAY: You + These Celebrity Mindsets = Unmatched Energy
youtube.com/live/8KMh16uDWdw?feature=share

✅ FRIDAY: Propaganda I AM definitely falling for... Unlearning Struggle, Choosing Ease in Love & Life
youtube.com/live/wwOPVSraSOo?feature=share

♥️We are live Monday, Wednesday, Friday @ 5pm!♥️

7 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 2

lilianshekinah

⭐️HAPPY SUNDAY! Just in case you missed this weeks livestreams⬇️

✅ MONDAY: 2025 isn't over yet, let’s reset together (Live Goal Audit & Mid-Year Reset)
youtube.com/live/CbI-U_xWnxQ?feature=shared

✅ FRIDAY: You get to change your narrative — It's NEVER too late to change your life!
youtube.com/live/nYE10jUTF0k?feature=shared

♥️We are live Monday, Wednesday, Friday @ 5pm!♥️

7 months ago | [YT] | 5

lilianshekinah

Happy Sunday!! 🤍

Just in case you missed this weeks livestreams:

⭐️ Monday: You deserve more than “good enough in love & life
youtube.com/live/CbI-U_xWnxQ?feature=shared

⭐️ Wednesday: You are not the problem- they are gaslighting you at work
youtube.com/live/1vhm5MuRftw?feature=shared

⭐️ Friday: How Change leads you to your purpose - (even if it feels like a loss)
youtube.com/live/MySJ5vnuGKQ?feature=shared

We are live Monday, Wednesday, Friday @ 5pm!

xoxo, lil 💖

8 months ago | [YT] | 2

lilianshekinah

♥️This Sunday’s live will be rescheduled for Monday(tomorrow) at 5pm.

➡️Adding a Wednesday 5pm live
➡️Adding a Friday 5pm live

Topics TBA, for requests comment below!!

Happy Sunday 💐

♥️♥️♥️

8 months ago | [YT] | 2