Nafisa's Pearlz
I am a Certified Relationship & Certified Trauma Informed Coach with a Bsc in Psychology. I help high achieving Muslimahs heal after toxic relationships and/or avoid them all together.
My goal is to inspire a new generation of woman who prioritises Allah & her mental wellbeing when relating with herself & or others.
Far from perfect yet I hope you guys will join me in my journey to getting closer to Allah, through relationship, trauma healing and Islamic content.
I have extensive knowledge relating to my deen however, I am not a scholar. I try to give reference whenever I mention a hadith or verse of the Quran. May Allah accepts our efforts in his cause. Ameen.
Relationship & Mental health coaching: nafisatuakilu.com
Nafisa's Pearlz
The relationship that wounded you should't get to write the story of who you become. When will you admit that you need to heal? You can do it, just give yourself the permission to move on to a better you. www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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If you feel guilty every time you prioritize yourself over others' expectations , that guilt was taught to you, not given by Allah. May He free you from the chains of people-pleasing! Personal development work like the one done in my Change Your Life Program dismantles the conditioning that keeps you stuck in one sided relationships.
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Sis, you've been carrying other people's emotional baggage for so long you forgot you're allowed to put it down. May Allah lighten your load and teach you the difference between loyalty and self-abandonment. Coaching is where you learn that supporting others should never require sacrificing yourself. Begin your journey here
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If every relationship in your life requires you to be less of yourself to be accepted , it's time to get curious about why you keep choosing spaces that reject your wholeness. May Allah guide you toward self-discovery and healing. Healing reveals the beliefs keeping you small so you can finally take up space, insha'Allah. Start here www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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You're not asking for too much by wanting a partner who actually partners with you, friends who show up, and family who respects your boundaries. May Allah replace what drains you with what sustains you. Healing work helps you stop normalizing what should never be normal. www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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When everyone comes to you with their problems but disappears when you need support that's not friendship, that's extraction. May Allah grant you discernment to see who's with you versus who's just using you. Coaching gives you the tools to set boundaries without burning bridges, bi'idhnillah. www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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You're not being 'difficult' for wanting consistency, honesty, and emotional maturity in your relationships. These are normal elements of healthy relationships. May Allah surround us all with people whose actions match their words. Coaching helps you raise your standards without apology and attract the reciprocity you've been giving away for free. www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching.
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Sister, if your closest relationships feel like performances where you can't fully exhale you're not imagining it. May Allah bless you with the wisdom to recognize emotional safety and the courage to demand it. Personal development is how you stop settling for crumbs and start feasting at the table you deserve. Learn how here www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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If you're constantly walking on eggshells, monitoring your tone, shrinking your needs just to keep the peace; that's not peace, sister, that's survival mode. May Allah give you the strength to stop accommodating dysfunction. Learn how to honor yourself while still honoring your deen here www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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You're allowed to outgrow relationships that once felt like home, habibti. Growth isn't betrayal, it's obedience to who Allah is calling you to become. Personal development gives you permission to evolve without guilt, insha'Allah. www.nafisatuakilu.com/coaching
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