I help people who grew up people-pleasing and are now stuck repeating patterns stop living from fear and start choosing themselves.

If you’re at a crossroads, apply for a Private Clarity Session below.

This is a grounded 1:1 conversation to help you see what you already know and move forward honestly.

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Nazneen Irani

Being you shouldn't give you anxiety. Because if it does, maybe you're trying to be someone you're not. Maybe you're betraying your true self for the sake of being liked. For the sake of being in a relationship. Spending time with your friends should make you feel lighter and elevated, not drained and confused. Spending time with your partner should make you feel at ease and safe, not disrespected or hurt.

Make decisions wisely from your heart, not out of fear.

#saunatime

1 day ago | [YT] | 10

Nazneen Irani

This was the beginning of the end of betraying myself.

When does yours start?

4 days ago | [YT] | 8

Nazneen Irani

Birthday Breakfast with my love.

35 feels lovely. I feel more wiser, confident, and compassionate for myself and others. Less judgemental, and more understanding.

Quality friends over quantity. It's a phase of being a lone wolf and it feels good in my soul.

Growing old is a privilege and I'm so grateful to be here.

Thank you for supporting me and subscribing to my channel! It means a lot to me and I hope to grow my channel this year. Kisses to you all ❤️❤️

And remember: Love people where they're at, not where you want them to be. 🥂

5 days ago (edited) | [YT] | 10

Nazneen Irani

You don’t fail your soul contract.
You just keep repeating the same lesson until you’re done avoiding the truth.

1 week ago | [YT] | 11

Nazneen Irani

Choosing your happiness and peace has a cost.

So does staying where you are.

1 week ago | [YT] | 11

Nazneen Irani

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
— Carl Jung

The cost isn’t obvious at first.

It shows up quietly, in years lost, energy drained, and choices you keep postponing because they feel safer than being honest.

If you’re tired of circling the same decision,
this is where patterns get exposed and things finally move.

Apply for a Private Clarity Session, link in bio. 🤍

1 week ago | [YT] | 6

Nazneen Irani

I didn’t wake up one day and become “self-aware.”

Life backed me into a corner and I couldn’t unsee the pattern anymore.

When you’ve grown up learning to keep the peace, you don’t notice you’re abandoning yourself, it just feels normal.

Until it doesn’t.

This page is for people who are done pretending and ready to be honest about what they’re choosing and why.

If that’s you, you’re in the right place.

🤍

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 7

Nazneen Irani

It’s like I’ve lived completely different lives in one lifetime.

16–22: I was disconnected from God and from myself. I wanted approval and acceptance so badly that I did anything to be liked. I hid my true self behind a mask.

22–29: I traveled the world, lived the life most people dream of, saved money but I lived life through my ego. I did things to show people how happy and successful I was but in reality I felt imprisoned by my own mind and the people I chose to surround myself with.

29–34: I got married, had a baby, and my view of life drastically changed. NOTHING wakes you up faster than a divorce and raising a child. It shakes you up to your truth, but only if you allow it and don’t dwell in it. I saw God within me, and I saw God in everyone, even the hurtful.

You are not your journey. You are the result of that entire journey in this very moment. You only need to try to be better than your last moment, not another person.

Ps. Sorry for the bad quality picks, it was 5-10 years back 🙈

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 7

Nazneen Irani

Being free has nothing to do with how much money or success you have.

Being free is when you speak your mind even when you know it will ruffle some feathers. Even when you know people will see you in a way that won't equal to you being liked and accepted.

But you speak it with love and respect.

Authentic power is often judged and gaslit in this culture, when it should be applauded.
It takes courage to be the fullest version of who you are.

So in a world that tries to distract you every second, make it your mission to be nothing more and nothing less.

Just be you.
Even when it hurts.

2 weeks ago (edited) | [YT] | 9

Nazneen Irani

My biggest struggle in this life has been learning not to give my power away to someone I experience as disrespectful or rude.

Usually I would raise my voice and give it right back to them.

But where would that leave me?
I would be doing the very thing that hurt me.

There is no difference between me and that person in that moment.

And when I don’t make a different choice, I stay stuck with them, trapped in the same reality.

Where do you give your power away?

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