I was asked what I think about this scandalous situation, as a relationship expert.
I personally think: what they did is their choice and no one else's business.
However, I stand for learning and evolving, and everyone can learn from this situation!
Quick recap, if you missed it.
Andy Byron, CEO of Astronomer, and Kristin Cabot, the company’s head of HR, were caught kissing on the kiss cam at a concert.
Here’s the catch: - They’re both married - They told their spouses they were on a work trip
5 relationship lessons you can learn:
1. The cracks always start long before the betrayal
Affairs don’t begin at concerts.
They begin in silence. In distance. In the moments when communication is replaced by pretending things are fine.
If you're feeling disconnected in your relationship, speak up before you start looking for validation elsewhere.
2. Short-term pleasure will end up costing everything!
My ex-husband once travelled across Europe just to spend a night with a 23y.o. colleague.
He bought a new email address, faked a colleague’s name, and sent himself a made-up conference agenda for a “Belgrade event”.
His lies were covered up by more lies.
He lost his marriage. Deleted himself from FB and LN.
In Andy and Kristin's case, the cost is already a lot higher.
"Is it worth it?" - ask yourself when you are just about to sabotage a long-term relationship for a fling.
3. When they love you THAT much, they would be with YOU, not another person.
I get it, life happens, you might be feeling totally unhappy in the relationship.
Then leave.
Staying together because of the kids? They won't say "thanks" for faking a happy family whilst you were cheating on their parent.
And stop jumping from one relationship to another, you're wasting your energy, and other people's time, whilst running away from yourself and your demons.
4. Keep personal and professional boundaries clear.
Both of them weren't just breaking trust at home — they were role-modelling how NOT to behave as leaders.
Will I be proud of myself? - That is a good question to ask yourself when you are approaching the "grey area".
5. If you feel the need to hide it, something is not right.
Let me be clear — not everything needs to be public.
What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, thank you very much.
But if you're feeling ashamed of something in your relationship — or if you're actively hiding something - that's avoidance.
Ask yourself:
Why am I hiding this? What truth am I afraid to face?
Because here's the truth: what’s hidden always finds the light.
My ex-husband also tried to hide his cheating, just as Andy and Kristy did.
Secrets rot the foundation. So if you're keeping one, you're already standing on shaky ground.
Ask yourself: "Why am I hiding it?".
If you really feel like the relationship you are in is not worth your time and effort, let them go.
Gift your partner and yourself freedom and keep your reputation green!
So many single people are dreading the 🎄Christmas🎄 season because they’ll be spending it on their own. They’ve spent weeks—maybe even months—carefully choosing presents for everyone else… but forgot to give themselves the ultimate gift:
🎁The gift of healing their relationship blueprint. 🎁
And sure, you could brush it off and say, “I don’t need anyone! I’ll just buy myself a bottle of wine and binge Netflix.” (Hey, no judgment, we’ve all been there!) But deep down, you know there’s another option:
The truth is, your past relationship patterns are like a script you didn’t even write, but you keep replaying. Until you break free from that, you’ll either keep attracting the wrong kind of connection—or none at all.
But here’s the good news: it’s not too late to change that.
February 7th-9th 2025, just a week before Valentine’s Day, I’m hosting a virtual event “Singles Manifesting Love: Attract Your Soulmate in 2025.”
This isn’t just another workshop. It’s your chance to finally: ✅ Create emotional, physical, spiritual space for new love to enter your life ✅ Break free from old relationship cycles ✅ Heal your heart and mindset ✅ Get crystal clear on the love you’re ready to attract ✅ Become a magnet for love ✅ Perhaps even meeting The One in one of the breakout sessions!
Imagine stepping into next year fully aligned, with your heart wide open, and ready to welcome the love you’ve always dreamed of.
Olga Geidane
Olga Geidane
I was asked what I think about this scandalous situation, as a relationship expert.
I personally think: what they did is their choice and no one else's business.
However, I stand for learning and evolving, and everyone can learn from this situation!
Quick recap, if you missed it.
Andy Byron, CEO of Astronomer, and Kristin Cabot, the company’s head of HR, were caught kissing on the kiss cam at a concert.
Here’s the catch:
- They’re both married
- They told their spouses they were on a work trip
5 relationship lessons you can learn:
1. The cracks always start long before the betrayal
Affairs don’t begin at concerts.
They begin in silence. In distance. In the moments when communication is replaced by pretending things are fine.
If you're feeling disconnected in your relationship, speak up before you start looking for validation elsewhere.
2. Short-term pleasure will end up costing everything!
My ex-husband once travelled across Europe just to spend a night with a 23y.o. colleague.
He bought a new email address, faked a colleague’s name, and sent himself a made-up conference agenda for a “Belgrade event”.
His lies were covered up by more lies.
He lost his marriage. Deleted himself from FB and LN.
In Andy and Kristin's case, the cost is already a lot higher.
"Is it worth it?" - ask yourself when you are just about to sabotage a long-term relationship for a fling.
3. When they love you THAT much, they would be with YOU, not another person.
I get it, life happens, you might be feeling totally unhappy in the relationship.
Then leave.
Staying together because of the kids? They won't say "thanks" for faking a happy family whilst you were cheating on their parent.
And stop jumping from one relationship to another, you're wasting your energy, and other people's time, whilst running away from yourself and your demons.
4. Keep personal and professional boundaries clear.
Both of them weren't just breaking trust at home — they were role-modelling how NOT to behave as leaders.
Will I be proud of myself? - That is a good question to ask yourself when you are approaching the "grey area".
5. If you feel the need to hide it, something is not right.
Let me be clear — not everything needs to be public.
What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, thank you very much.
But if you're feeling ashamed of something in your relationship — or if you're actively hiding something - that's avoidance.
Ask yourself:
Why am I hiding this? What truth am I afraid to face?
Because here's the truth: what’s hidden always finds the light.
My ex-husband also tried to hide his cheating, just as Andy and Kristy did.
Secrets rot the foundation. So if you're keeping one, you're already standing on shaky ground.
Ask yourself: "Why am I hiding it?".
If you really feel like the relationship you are in is not worth your time and effort, let them go.
Gift your partner and yourself freedom and keep your reputation green!
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𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗟𝗲𝘁 𝗔𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗺𝗮𝘀 𝗣𝗮𝘀𝘀 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗕𝘆 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗬𝗢𝗨 ❤️
So many single people are dreading the 🎄Christmas🎄 season because they’ll be spending it on their own. They’ve spent weeks—maybe even months—carefully choosing presents for everyone else… but forgot to give themselves the ultimate gift:
🎁The gift of healing their relationship blueprint. 🎁
And sure, you could brush it off and say, “I don’t need anyone! I’ll just buy myself a bottle of wine and binge Netflix.” (Hey, no judgment, we’ve all been there!) But deep down, you know there’s another option:
❤️𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒗𝒆. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒏𝒆𝒘 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆. ❤️
The truth is, your past relationship patterns are like a script you didn’t even write, but you keep replaying. Until you break free from that, you’ll either keep attracting the wrong kind of connection—or none at all.
But here’s the good news: it’s not too late to change that.
February 7th-9th 2025, just a week before Valentine’s Day, I’m hosting a virtual event “Singles Manifesting Love: Attract Your Soulmate in 2025.”
This isn’t just another workshop. It’s your chance to finally:
✅ Create emotional, physical, spiritual space for new love to enter your life
✅ Break free from old relationship cycles
✅ Heal your heart and mindset
✅ Get crystal clear on the love you’re ready to attract
✅ Become a magnet for love
✅ Perhaps even meeting The One in one of the breakout sessions!
Imagine stepping into next year fully aligned, with your heart wide open, and ready to welcome the love you’ve always dreamed of.
🔥𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙥 𝙬𝙖𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙚𝙡𝙨𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙪𝙥—𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙪𝙥 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛.🔥
So, are you in? Let’s make 2025 the year you finally attract the love you deserve.
DM me for details, or check the comments below to save your spot now!
And HURRY, there are 5 tickets with 50% discount - will you be lucky one? 🔥🔥🔥
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