đźš« 40 THINGS A MAN SHOULD NEVER DO đźš« THIS IS YOUR 2026 WAKE-UP CALL.
This is not just a list. This is a blueprint for survival in a world that’s designed to destroy distracted, weak, and unaware men.
Too many men are walking through life confused, heartbroken, and directionless — not because life is unfair — but because they keep doing the very things that kill their potential.
This is not motivational fluff. These are hard-earned lessons written in scars, silence, and sweat. Read them slowly. Let them convict you. Let them guide you.
Because a man who knows what NOT to do is more dangerous than a man who simply knows what to do.
1. Never beg to be loved. Love begged for is never real love. Keep your dignity.
2. Never fear responsibility. It’s the weight that builds your shoulders. Carry it, don’t run from it.
3. Never stay in a toxic relationship. Love is not supposed to drain you. If it’s poison, walk away.
4. Never let failure define you. Failure is a chapter, not the whole book. Turn the page.
5. Never depend on others to solve your problems. Be your hero. No one is coming to save you.
6. Never let your pride control you. Pride is expensive. It’ll cost you relationships, peace, and progress.
7. Never settle for mediocrity. You were not made for average. Shake it off. Push deeper.
8. Never cry in public out of pity. Your tears are sacred, so save them for God, for healing, not for performance.
9. Never compromise your values for temporary gain. If success costs you your soul, it’s not success, it’s slavery.
10. Never neglect your health. A weak body can't carry a strong destiny. Take care of your temple.
11. Never avoid hard work. Comfort is seductive, but growth lives in the grind.
12. Never live to impress people. Their applause won’t pay your bills or save your soul.
13. Never make excuses. Excuses are lies wrapped in logic. Face your truth.
14. Never fear change. If you won’t evolve, life will make you extinct.
15. Never stop learning. The man who stops learning starts dying. Stay hungry.
16. Never ignore your responsibilities. A man who abandons duty is a boy in disguise.
17. Never run from your problems. What you avoid today becomes a storm tomorrow. Face it now.
18. Never stay broke by choice. Money may not buy happiness, but lack of it buys suffering. Hustle!
19. Never let setbacks stop you. Fall 7 times, get up 8. That’s how legends are made.
20. Never compare yourself to others. Run your race. Comparison is the thief of purpose.
21. Never hold grudges. Forgiveness isn’t weakness, it’s emotional freedom.
22. Never sacrifice integrity for opportunity. What you compromise to get, you’ll eventually lose.
23. Never let fear guide your decisions. Fear is a liar. Listen to it, and you’ll never move.
24. Never be too proud to say, “I was wrong.” Accountability is manhood, not weakness.
25. Never depend on others for happiness. It’s your job to make yourself whole.
26. Never live in regret. Learn from your past, but don’t build a house there.
27. Never delay healing. Unhealed pain makes you dangerous to others. Deal with it.
28. Never let a woman define your worth. A queen won’t respect a man who has no throne of his own.
29. Never let failure be final. It’s not the end. It’s a plot twist.
30. Never gossip like a child. Real men don’t talk behind backs, they build in silence.
31. Never underestimate your potential. If only you saw what God put inside you.
32. Never ignore your family. Success at the cost of your family is failure in disguise.
33. Never allow negative influences to shape your path. Some people are devils in disguise; cut them off.
34. Never act without thinking. Impulsiveness has ruined more men than poverty.
35. Never chase shortcuts. Slow, steady, intentional growth wins in the long run.
36. Never betray your brothers. If he trusted you, don’t become his lesson.
37. Never avoid pain. Run toward the fire. That’s where you’re forged.
38. Never be silent when you should speak. Silence in moments of truth is cowardice.
39. Never stop praying. There are battles your muscles can’t win; only heaven can.
40. Never forget who you are. The world will try to name you. Don’t forget your real name.
FINAL WORD:
Success isn’t just about what you do It’s about what you stop doing.
Cut the self-sabotage Delete the victim mindset Reject the distractions
You don’t need a miracle You need discipline, clarity, and a code Let this list be your code. Read it daily. Burn it into your habits.
Because one day, life will test you And when it does — you better be ready.
1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.
2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that delays blessings!
3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.
4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.
5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.
6. Chase goals, not people.
7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.
8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.
9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.
10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.
11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.
12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.
13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.
15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.
16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.
17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.
18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.
19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.
20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.
21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.
22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.
23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.
24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.
25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid.
26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.
27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.
28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.
29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.
30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.
31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.
32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.
33. Avoid peer pressure.
34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.
35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
The eyes cannot see when the mind is blind,Christ alicome akatoa izo swara,the last word alisema Yesu zilibamba,na ivo ndivyo alimada blanda. #smartpicture254
LEARN TO ACCEPT THESE 20 SAD TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE IF YOU ARE REALLY A MATURE ADULT!!!
👉Being an adult comes with a lot of responsibilities and acceptance about how unfair life can sometimes be to us. Here are list of sad truths you have to accept when they happen to you as an adult :
1. Not everything you want will be yours and you have to let go or try some other times
2 . Sometimes not everything you dream of will become a reality
3. Sometimes you win in what you are doing , other times you learn .
4 Accept the fact that not everyone will be with you forever,some good people have temporary stay
5 .sometimes you might be hurt but then you have to let go, time heals wound, let God make justice, it may delay but always worth it
6 .Not everyone you love will love you back,many people are backstabber and expert ❤️ heart breaker
7. Don't expect people to be nice to you because you are a nice person
8. Accept not expecting too much from Someone because humans can be disappointing
9 . Never do good things with the hope of getting something else in return
10 . You will lose more and more friends as you grow up
11. The only person you can fail is God And Yourself
12 . Sometimes the person you care about the most is the person that will hurt you the most
13. Putting in too much effort doesn't guarantee immediate success or results,it's gradual process
14. Rejections and failures will happen to you at one point in life
15. Accept that there will be a time when you need to start fending for yourself
16 You will make mistakes and take stupid decisions
17 .Don't expect people to have the level of understanding as you have .
18. There are days it will seem everything is going wrong and downhill
19. You need to walk away from some people to maintain peace of mind
Being true to yourself is a form of freedom that no one else can understand. It's only you and God. Anapano is out check out via the link https://youtu.be/h_XAuK0nrT0?si=HL9tG...
What you need is to believe that you have the capacity to do it. It will tap into the subconscious then follows the manifestation. Be humble,patience and understand the rule of life. Coz the greater is he who dwells in Me.
The Real Nelson
đźš« 40 THINGS A MAN SHOULD NEVER DO đźš«
THIS IS YOUR 2026 WAKE-UP CALL.
This is not just a list.
This is a blueprint for survival in a world that’s designed to destroy distracted, weak, and unaware men.
Too many men are walking through life confused, heartbroken, and directionless — not because life is unfair — but because they keep doing the very things that kill their potential.
This is not motivational fluff.
These are hard-earned lessons written in scars, silence, and sweat.
Read them slowly. Let them convict you. Let them guide you.
Because a man who knows what NOT to do is more dangerous than a man who simply knows what to do.
1. Never beg to be loved.
Love begged for is never real love. Keep your dignity.
2. Never fear responsibility.
It’s the weight that builds your shoulders. Carry it, don’t run from it.
3. Never stay in a toxic relationship.
Love is not supposed to drain you. If it’s poison, walk away.
4. Never let failure define you.
Failure is a chapter, not the whole book. Turn the page.
5. Never depend on others to solve your problems.
Be your hero. No one is coming to save you.
6. Never let your pride control you.
Pride is expensive. It’ll cost you relationships, peace, and progress.
7. Never settle for mediocrity.
You were not made for average. Shake it off. Push deeper.
8. Never cry in public out of pity.
Your tears are sacred, so save them for God, for healing, not for performance.
9. Never compromise your values for temporary gain.
If success costs you your soul, it’s not success, it’s slavery.
10. Never neglect your health.
A weak body can't carry a strong destiny. Take care of your temple.
11. Never avoid hard work.
Comfort is seductive, but growth lives in the grind.
12. Never live to impress people.
Their applause won’t pay your bills or save your soul.
13. Never make excuses.
Excuses are lies wrapped in logic. Face your truth.
14. Never fear change.
If you won’t evolve, life will make you extinct.
15. Never stop learning.
The man who stops learning starts dying. Stay hungry.
16. Never ignore your responsibilities.
A man who abandons duty is a boy in disguise.
17. Never run from your problems.
What you avoid today becomes a storm tomorrow. Face it now.
18. Never stay broke by choice.
Money may not buy happiness, but lack of it buys suffering. Hustle!
19. Never let setbacks stop you.
Fall 7 times, get up 8. That’s how legends are made.
20. Never compare yourself to others.
Run your race. Comparison is the thief of purpose.
21. Never hold grudges.
Forgiveness isn’t weakness, it’s emotional freedom.
22. Never sacrifice integrity for opportunity.
What you compromise to get, you’ll eventually lose.
23. Never let fear guide your decisions.
Fear is a liar. Listen to it, and you’ll never move.
24. Never be too proud to say, “I was wrong.”
Accountability is manhood, not weakness.
25. Never depend on others for happiness.
It’s your job to make yourself whole.
26. Never live in regret.
Learn from your past, but don’t build a house there.
27. Never delay healing.
Unhealed pain makes you dangerous to others. Deal with it.
28. Never let a woman define your worth.
A queen won’t respect a man who has no throne of his own.
29. Never let failure be final.
It’s not the end. It’s a plot twist.
30. Never gossip like a child.
Real men don’t talk behind backs, they build in silence.
31. Never underestimate your potential.
If only you saw what God put inside you.
32. Never ignore your family.
Success at the cost of your family is failure in disguise.
33. Never allow negative influences to shape your path.
Some people are devils in disguise; cut them off.
34. Never act without thinking.
Impulsiveness has ruined more men than poverty.
35. Never chase shortcuts.
Slow, steady, intentional growth wins in the long run.
36. Never betray your brothers.
If he trusted you, don’t become his lesson.
37. Never avoid pain.
Run toward the fire. That’s where you’re forged.
38. Never be silent when you should speak.
Silence in moments of truth is cowardice.
39. Never stop praying.
There are battles your muscles can’t win; only heaven can.
40. Never forget who you are.
The world will try to name you. Don’t forget your real name.
FINAL WORD:
Success isn’t just about what you do
It’s about what you stop doing.
Cut the self-sabotage
Delete the victim mindset
Reject the distractions
You don’t need a miracle
You need discipline, clarity, and a code
Let this list be your code. Read it daily. Burn it into your habits.
Because one day, life will test you
And when it does — you better be ready.
🔥 Rules are Rules 🫵
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MY FATHER'S ADVICE...
1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.
2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that delays blessings!
3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.
4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.
5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.
6. Chase goals, not people.
7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.
8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.
9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.
10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.
11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.
12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.
13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.
15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.
16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.
17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.
18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.
19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.
20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.
21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.
22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.
23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.
24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.
25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid.
26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.
27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.
28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.
29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.
30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.
31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.
32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.
33. Avoid peer pressure.
34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.
35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
~ Do your job.
~ Get paid.
~ Go home.
RULES ARE RULES🫵
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The eyes cannot see when the mind is blind,Christ alicome akatoa izo swara,the last word alisema Yesu zilibamba,na ivo ndivyo alimada blanda.
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LEARN TO ACCEPT THESE 20 SAD TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE IF YOU ARE REALLY A MATURE ADULT!!!
👉Being an adult comes with a lot of responsibilities and acceptance about how unfair life can sometimes be to us. Here are list of sad truths you have to accept when they happen to you as an adult :
1. Not everything you want will be yours and you have to let go or try some other times
2 . Sometimes not everything you dream of will become a reality
3. Sometimes you win in what you are doing , other times you learn .
4 Accept the fact that not everyone will be with you forever,some good people have temporary stay
5 .sometimes you might be hurt but then you have to let go, time heals wound, let God make justice, it may delay but always worth it
6 .Not everyone you love will love you back,many people are backstabber and expert ❤️ heart breaker
7. Don't expect people to be nice to you because you are a nice person
8. Accept not expecting too much from Someone because humans can be disappointing
9 . Never do good things with the hope of getting something else in return
10 . You will lose more and more friends as you grow up
11. The only person you can fail is God And Yourself
12 . Sometimes the person you care about the most is the person that will hurt you the most
13. Putting in too much effort doesn't guarantee immediate success or results,it's gradual process
14. Rejections and failures will happen to you at one point in life
15. Accept that there will be a time when you need to start fending for yourself
16 You will make mistakes and take stupid decisions
17 .Don't expect people to have the level of understanding as you have .
18. There are days it will seem everything is going wrong and downhill
19. You need to walk away from some people to maintain peace of mind
20. Without God , you won't go far in Life...
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It is Finished.. A story Of Christ
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The eyes cannot see when the mind is blind
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Being true to yourself is a form of freedom that no one else can understand. It's only you and God. Anapano is out check out via the link https://youtu.be/h_XAuK0nrT0?si=HL9tG...
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What you need is to believe that you have the capacity to do it. It will tap into the subconscious then follows the manifestation. Be humble,patience and understand the rule of life. Coz the greater is he who dwells in Me.
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Anapano By The Real Nelson is out already guys check it out via the link https://youtu.be/h_XAuK0nrT0?si=lcLO8...
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