An Islamic channel for Muslim women seeking practical guidance to improve their lives through faith.
This channel focuses on helping women become better wives and emotionally strong mothers through calm, firm, and compassionate parenting.
I’m Umm Umar, certified in Pre-School Parenting, Marital & Pre-Marital Counseling, awaiting certifications in REBT, CBT foundations, Intimacy Counselling and ongoing training in hypnotherapy. I’m an author too. Pls find my books and journals in Amazon or Etsy stores linked below.
I was born in Saudi Arabia which gave me the opportunity to obtain Islamic knowledge under scholars. I also worked professionally as a teacher for many years.
My mission is to strengthen marriages and raise peaceful, emotionally healthy children bi-idhnillah.
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Al Qawarir Ladies Channel
The hardest part of yelling at your child isn’t the yelling itself.
It’s the feeling that comes after, the guilt, the regret, and the wish that you handled things differently.
Many parents struggle with emotional reactions, especially when they are overwhelmed, stressed, or exhausted.
But emotional reactions are not permanent.
They can be retrained with the right tools and guidance.
Calm parenting is not about perfection. It’s about learning how to respond with awareness, patience, and emotional control.
If you want to stop yelling and start responding with calm, this course is for you.
✨ Your Path To Lasting Calm
A practical Islamic parenting course designed to help mothers build calm, connection, and emotional resilience.
Check the link to join. alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingTips #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #EmotionalRegulation #StopYellingParenting #MindfulMotherhood #Tarbiyyah #CalmParenting #ConsciousParenting
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Why do moms end up yelling at their children?
For many parents, it follows the same pattern:
The child ignores instructions.
The parent repeats it several times.
Frustration begins to build.
And eventually the voice gets louder.
Not because the parent wants to yell but because they feel overwhelmed and unheard.
But the real issue is often disconnection, not discipline.
When children feel emotionally connected to their parents, they are more likely to cooperate and respond calmly.
If you want to stop the yelling cycle and raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children, this course was created for you.
✨ Defiant to Compliant
A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers of 3–7 year olds who want calmer, more connected parenting.
Click the link to join the course.
www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #ParentingTips #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #MindfulMotherhood
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📚 Excerpts from the Book 📚
"How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish.
Chapter 1: Helping Children Deal With Their Feelings.
🔶When kids feel right, they will behave right. We help them feel right by accepting their feelings. But what happens many at times is the dismissal of feelings which makes kids confused about their feelings.
Scenario 1:
Child: I'm hungry
Mom: You can't be hungry, you just had a snack!
Child: But I'm hungry!
Mom: You're not hungry, you just want to disturb mom!
👆This conversation is telling the child not to trust their perceptions but rely on the mom's instead.
We can navigate through this by putting ourselves in our kid's shoes.
🔶Feelings can be helped through:
📍 Listening with full attention.
Actively listening to what a child is saying and putting away all distractions can make a big difference
📍 Acknowledgment of feelings with a word. Like "oh!", "Mmmhh!" "I see" . Words like these, coupled with a caring attitude, are invitations to a child to explore her own thoughts and feelings, and possibly come up with her own solutions.
📍 Giving their feelings a name. Urging a child to push a bad feelings away makes the child get more upset. Like saying, "stop crying, it is just a single necklace that got lost! You've got lots of it at home." Say instead, "you're sad"
🔴 NOTES 🔴
🔴Resist the temptation to "make better" instantly. Instead of giving advice, continue to listen and acknowledge their feelings.
🔴The time when you empathize with your child is when a child wants you to know how he feels.
🔴Instead of asking what happened? Or why are you feeling that way. Say , I see something is making you sad.
🔴Parents shouldn't respond to a child's feeling with a strong emotion (over reacting).
🚫Oh!, what your friend did is inexcusable! Why would she have done that, she is really selfish!
🔴For some kids, their parent's presence is enough comfort for them. No words, just silent calm moments beside each other with some *"pats"* , maybe.
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Al Qawarir Ladies Channel
You promised yourself you wouldn’t yell today.
But by the end of the day, your patience ran out and the guilt followed immediately.
Many mothers struggle with this cycle of yelling, regret, and exhaustion.
The truth is, young children are still learning emotional regulation, cooperation, and self-control. They need calm leadership, clear boundaries, and connection.
This is exactly what parents can learn through the right guidance.
✨ Defiant to Compliant course
A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers, designed to help raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children without yelling, threats, or punishment.
If you're ready to build a calmer home environment, check the link to enroll.
www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #MuslimMothers #ParentingTips #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting #MindfulMotherhood
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I’ll be sharing some reflections on trauma InshaAllah. From tomorrow, you will begin to see trauma in a completely different light: what it truly is at its most basic level, and how you can protect yourself and your children from it.
Afterwards, you’re very welcome to ask questions, and please feel free to share this live session with your loved ones. youtube.com/live/G7iIXKgrIY0?feature=share
⚠️ Session Timing: the session will begin at 11am UK time (not 10am) on Sunday 5th of April, so be sure to set your alarms accordingly and come say salam :)
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I’ve been wanting to meet my Qawarir sisters in person for a while now. 🤍
So inshaAllah, I’m planning a special transformational gathering just for us!
If you’re based in Manchester, I would truly love for you to be part of this beautiful experience. Please join the group and invite any friends or family who would benefit too:
chat.whatsapp.com/Hjqf6A11pMIKI6uCTGMU9m?mode=gi_t
This is for all my Qawarir ladies in Manchester, I can’t wait to finally connect with you face to face, in a space filled with eemaan, growth, smiles and sisterhood ✨
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Motherhood is not about perfection.
It’s about learning how to respond with wisdom, patience, and connection especially during the early years when children are forming their emotional foundations.
If you want to stop the cycle of yelling and raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children, check out my parenting course:
✨ Defiant to Compliant course
A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers who want to build connection, calm discipline, and meaningful tarbiyyah.
Click the link to learn more: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingTips #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #MuslimMoms #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #Tarbiyyah #GentleParenting
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Assalamu Alaikum.
This Sunday 10am UK time we’ll be hosting another live Q&A session inshaAllah.
👉🏻 I’ll be sharing some thoughts on traumatic life experiences, how to understand them, how to respond to them, and how to move forward with strength. InshaAllah, you’ll leave the session with a deeper sense of resilience and a completely new perspective on trauma.
If you’ve ever worried about whether your children might be affected by trauma, or if you or someone close to you have gone through something difficult, you’ll gain clarity, reassurance, and proper mindset bi idhnillāh.
As always, bring your family and friends and enjoy an ad-free experience together ‼️
💚 You can join the YouTube channel through this link to have access to this live session even after it’s finished:
youtube.com/channel/UC6eDa4PdSJi-cCbAF2OA8mQ/join
💚 If you’d like any of your questions answered or if you want to suggest a topic, pls do so in the comments.
💚 If you want to book 1:1 counselling session with me, pls join this group: chat.whatsapp.com/JXcFzbNswxQFJn2g6rSXVX?mode=gi_t
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Let’s focus on the quality ladies. Can’t wait to get back to you with amazing and interactive sessions 🙌🏻
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Eid Mubaarak, ladies! 🤍✨
Taqabbalallahu minna wa minkum.
Alhamdulillah for the strength through Ramadan – the quiet sacrifices, the unseen efforts, and the sincere du’as whispered in between busy days. May Allah accept every small and big act of worship, grant barakah in our homes, and fill our hearts with peace and contentment. Ameen Ya Rabb 💕
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