An Islamic channel for Muslim women seeking practical guidance to improve their lives through faith.
This channel focuses on helping women become better wives and emotionally strong mothers through calm, firm, and compassionate parenting.
I’m Umm Umar, certified in Pre-School Parenting, Marital & Pre-Marital Counselling and intimacy coaching. Awaiting certifications in REBT, CBT foundations, and hypnotherapy. I’m an author too. Pls find my books and journals in Amazon or Etsy stores linked below.
I was born in Saudi Arabia which gave me the opportunity to obtain Islamic knowledge under scholars. I hold a bachelors and masters in Islamic studies. I’ve also worked professionally as a teacher for many years.
My mission is to strengthen marriages and raise peaceful, emotionally healthy children bi-idhnillah.
If this resonates with you, subscribe and grow with us.
Al Qawarir
Bedtime struggles can be emotionally exhausting for mothers.
You may begin the evening calm and patient, but after hours of parenting, the repeated delays, whining, mess, and resistance can push an already exhausted nervous system beyond its limit.
That’s why yelling at bedtime is not always about what happened in that one moment.
Often, it is the result of stress and emotional overload that has been building throughout the day.
Learning to RECOGNIZE YOUR TRIGGERS and REGULATE YOUR EMOTIONS can help you respond differently even during difficult parenting moments.
✨ Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you’ll learn practical Islamic tools for emotional regulation, managing overwhelm, and responding with greater calm and mercy.
Start your healing journey today.
Click the link to join. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #BedtimeStruggles #PeacefulParenting #CalmParenting #EmotionalRegulation #MindfulMotherhood #HealingMotherhood #MuslimMothers #ParentingTips #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting
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Al Qawarir
Salam dearies. I will see you all this sunday, for a steaming session on the marriage bi-idhnillah.
Day and Time: Sunday 23th of August, 2026. 11am UK time.
Meanwhile head over to the link, and do the poll. I'd love to hear your opinions.
youtube.com/live/cteoAN80gD8?feature=share
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Al Qawarir
🌿 *Join Our One Month Character Building Challenge for kids!* 🌿
*🚨 Starting today inshaallah. 🚨*
As salaamu'alaykum warahmatuLlaahi wabarakaatuhu, lovely Mommas 🌹
🌻As mothers, we often focus on teaching our children what to learn. But one of the greatest gifts we can give them is who they become.
Character isn't built in one conversation it is shaped through small, intentional moments every day.
💘 Join us for the *Character Building Challenge by Al-Qawarir,* where we'll spend just a few minutes each day nurturing beautiful Islamic character in our homes through Qur'an, Sunnah, meaningful conversations, simple family activities, and practical challenges.
🧡Our first week is all about Honesty helping our children love the truth, speak with kindness, admit mistakes, and become trustworthy for the sake of Allah.
This challenge isn't about perfect parenting. It's about growing together as families, one character trait at a time.
🌱 A few minutes each day. A lifetime of beautiful character, in shā Allāh.
🤲May Allah make our homes places where faith and good character flourish. Ameen. 🤍
*🚨 Please join our mothers only group, only if you're ready to commit to the journey, and pass the khair!🚨*
chat.whatsapp.com/LJ4dEa4Ag7GImnfagRedz4?s=cl&p=i&…
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If someone in a home is expected to sacrifice their rights just to keep the peace... if suffering is defended in the name of obedience, qiwamah, culture, or religion... then these words of Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله deserve to be read carefully:
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َإِنَّ الشَّرِيعَةَ مَبْنَاهَا وَأَسَاسُهَا عَلَى الْحِكَمِ وَمَصَالِحِ الْعِبَادِ فِي الْمَعَاشِ وَالْمَعَادِ، وَهِيَ عَدْلٌ كُلُّهَا، وَرَحْمَةٌ كُلُّهَا، وَمَصَالِحُ كُلُّهَا، وَحِكْمَةٌ كُلُّهَا، فَكُلُّ مَسْأَلَةٍ خَرَجَتْ عَنِ الْعَدْلِ إِلَى الْجَوْرِ، وَعَنِ الرَّحْمَةِ إِلَى ضِدِّهَا، وَعَنِ الْمَصْلَحَةِ إِلَى الْمَفْسَدَةِ، وَعَنِ الْحِكْمَةِ إِلَى الْعَبَثِ، فَلَيْسَتْ مِنَ الشَّرِيعَةِ، وَإِنْ أُدْخِلَتْ فِيهَا بِالتَّأْوِيلِ
🌸 "The Shari’ah is founded entirely upon justice, mercy, wisdom, and the welfare of people. So anything that replaces justice with oppression, mercy with cruelty, benefit with harm, or wisdom with futility is not from the Shari’ah—even if it is interpreted to be so."
Islam came to establish justice, mercy, and dignity. When religion is weaponised by the oppressor, the problem is not Islam—it is the misuse of Islam.
May Allah make our homes places of sakinah, Ameen.
P.S. my cinnamon (bunny) is a bit unwell. Keep him in your duas 🤲
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Inside the bridal bootcamp...
To join the paid course, pls click on the link: chat.whatsapp.com/D5xuqazj0n5JsZI0IKmpY4
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We’re running a confidenceSprint in the empowered mothers groups. If you’re interested, pls join the group and pass the Khayr with other mothers too! chat.whatsapp.com/CbxiTDaXWxaE5Nxa7hXlUC?s=cl&p=i&…
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Last Sunday, we talked about some important concepts, self-prep, house prep, and tips to help make the first visit with a suitor as disaster-free as possible.😄
My openness pleasantly surprised some participants 🤭.....check the next image.
This Sunday, inshaAllah, we're getting into the juicier stuff: how to behave and what to expect when the suitor sets foot in the house. We'll also cover red, green, and yellow flags, How to vet the suitor, and much more, including long-distance prospects, family dynamics, and other important considerations.
Most importantly, we will talk about the most neglected emotional side of this whole process: the feelings of hopelessness, emptiness, FOMO, and rejection. 💔 Ouch!!
Are you in yet? chat.whatsapp.com/D5xuqazj0n5JsZI0IKmpY4
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Al Qawarir
A common misconception about peaceful parenting is that calm parents never feel angry.
In reality, emotional regulation is not the absence of anger.
It is the ability to recognize emotions, process them effectively, and respond intentionally.
Many parents were taught emotional suppression rather than emotional regulation, which often leads to overwhelm, burnout, and reactive parenting.
The good news is that these skills can be learned.
Inside Your Path to Lasting Calm, you'll learn practical Islamic strategies to manage emotions, understand triggers, and create a calmer home environment without suppressing how you feel.
🤍 Join today for only £10 and begin your path to lasting calm. Check the link here for more info. alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #PeacefulParenting #MindfulMotherhood #CalmParenting #HealingMotherhood #EmotionalRegulation #PositiveParenting #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting
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Assalamu Alaikum, Qawarir.
I'm experimenting with some new tools to help me communicate my ideas more clearly and effectively. The thoughts and content are 100% my own, although the voice itself is not. This short video took so much time lol
I'd love for you to listen to it and share your honest feedback in the comments. Do you find this format helpful for understanding and retaining the information?
Jazakum Allahu khairan! 🤍
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Tomorrow we dive into all the nuances of Marriage Meeting (الرؤية الشرعية). Reserve your spot here. chat.whatsapp.com/D5xuqazj0n5JsZI0IKmpY4
Or watch the intro here: youtube.com/live/PUgzy_KFrh4?si=yX7quBoqTKG5O_sI
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