An Islamic channel for Muslim women seeking practical guidance to improve their lives through faith.
This channel focuses on helping women become better wives and emotionally strong mothers through calm, firm, and compassionate parenting.
I’m Umm Umar, certified in Pre-School Parenting, Marital & Pre-Marital Counseling, awaiting certifications in REBT, CBT foundations, Intimacy Counselling and ongoing training in hypnotherapy. I’m an author too. Pls find my books and journals in Amazon or Etsy stores linked below.
I was born in Saudi Arabia which gave me the opportunity to obtain Islamic knowledge under scholars. I also worked professionally as a teacher for many years.
My mission is to strengthen marriages and raise peaceful, emotionally healthy children bi-idhnillah.
If this resonates with you, subscribe and grow with us.
Al Qawarir Ladies Channel
Reminder: Our weekly casual ladies hangout is tomorrow at 10am UK time. You’re encouraged to have your videos on so we can feel more connected, but there’s absolutely no pressure.
See you ladies 🤍 It’s a private, unrecorded, and judgment-free space. You’re welcome to share anything, ask anything, or simply sit back and enjoy the conversation.
Can’t wait to see you all.
Join to receive the link: chat.whatsapp.com/L2zhQmqQUUg7eXvefkJ7SH?mode=gi_t
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You are all warmly invited to attend the very first session of Bridal Bootcamp this Sunday, 15th May 2026, at 11:00 AM UK time, inshaAllah.
Please join on time so you don’t miss out. All attendees will also receive a special discount on the full course inshaAllah, so subscribe and turn on your notification bells. You wouldn't want to miss this.
Do share this with as many girls as possible, let’s come together and have fun discussions inshaAllah.
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Children do not always ignore instructions because they are “bad” or intentionally difficult.
In many cases, emotional disconnection plays a major role in behavior.
When children feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally overwhelmed, cooperation often decreases. But when connection is strengthened, children become more responsive, trusting, and willing to listen.
Peaceful parenting is not about perfection, it’s about building a relationship where guidance feels safe instead of pressured.
Inside Defiant to Compliant, I teach practical Islamic parenting strategies that help mothers build deeper connection and guide behavior calmly without yelling or punishment.
💬 Check the link to enroll. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #ConnectedParenting #MindfulMotherhood #CalmParenting #EmotionalRegulation #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting
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Starting... This Sunday! 17th May, 2026 inshaAllah.
So you’ve found a potential spouse… and suddenly you feel that nervous knot in your stomach.
What should I wear? Glasses or no glasses? Makeup or natural?
What should I ask? How should I respond? 💭
This bootcamp is designed to walk you step-by-step through one of the biggest transitions of your life 🤍
From the marriage meeting all the way to the honeymoon, setting you up for success bi-idhnillah.
You’ll leave feeling:
• More relaxed and confident
• More informed
• More emotionally prepared
• Ready for this new chapter
🌸 WE’LL COVER THE FOLLOWING AND MUCH MORE INSHAALLAH 🌸
💌 THE MARRIAGE MEETING
• How to make the best first impression
• Red flags & men to avoid 🚩
• The challenges of new beginnings, especially the second time around
• Intercultural marriage challenges
🤍 ENGAGEMENT / PRE-NIKAH PHASE
• How much to contact & what to talk about
• Boundaries never to cross
• Nikah preparation
• How to connect after the nikah but before the wedding
💰 FINANCIAL MINDSET
• Spending vs. splurging
• Managing finances as newlyweds
• What if the wife is earning?
🌸 WEDDING PREPARATION
• Wedding shopping essentials (dress, makeup, venue & planning)
• How to make your wedding day run smoothly ✨
• How to deal with the unexpected.
🌹 INTIMACY EDUCATION (BEFORE THE FIRST NIGHT)
• Building confidence with your body
• Understanding male & female anatomy
• Overcoming fears around intimacy
• What can go wrong during intimacy, and how to handle it
• How to communicate discomfort respectfully
• Intimacy dos & don’ts
💕 INTIMACY + FAMILY PLANNING
• The first night
• How to make intimacy enjoyable for her
• Different forms of intimacy
• Family planning
• Contraceptive options
✈️ HONEYMOON + EARLY MARRIAGE
• Honeymoon dos & don’ts
• The reality beyond the honeymoon phase
• What “respect” and “security” really mean in marriage
• Wisdoms of dealing with in laws
💎 PRICING:
✨ Early Bird Offer (Ends 13th May 2026): £50
✨ Regular Price: £75
📲 For payment & registration:
chat.whatsapp.com/EYxQV897X3X0hwllHvmZkh (Pls only join when you're ready to pay)
🌷 Ongoing support will be provided in the group throughout the duration of the course inshaAllah.
INSTRUCTOR
Umm Umar
Marriage & Intimacy Coach
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Many parents believe the hardest part of yelling is the moment itself.
But often, the hardest part is the guilt that follows afterward.
The regret, emotional exhaustion, and constant cycle of reacting and apologizing can slowly drain a parent emotionally.
Peaceful parenting is not about suppressing emotions or becoming a “perfect” parent.
It’s about learning healthier ways to respond during stressful moments.
Inside Defiant to Compliant, I teach practical Islamic parenting strategies to help mothers break the yelling cycle, build emotional control, and create calmer homes without yelling or punishment.
Check the link to learn more. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #MindfulMotherhood #CalmParenting #EmotionalRegulation #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting
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2 hrs to go inshaAllah. Pls turn on your notifications so you don't miss it because once it's gone, it gone.
Also pls give it a like and a comment so more mothers can find it and benefit from it inshaAllah.
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Many parents feel frustrated because gentle parenting seems ineffective.
They stay calm, avoid yelling, and explain things patiently yet their child still ignores instructions or keeps repeating behaviors.
The missing piece is often boundaries.
Children need emotional safety, but they also need clear expectations and consistent guidance.
Kindness without structure can create confusion, while calm leadership with firm boundaries helps children feel secure and cooperative.
Inside Defiant to Compliant, I teach practical Islamic parenting strategies that combine connection, calm discipline, and effective boundaries without yelling or punishment.
Check the link to learn more. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #ParentingTips #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #MindfulMotherhood #ConsciousParenting
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See you in 2 days inshaAllah. Feel free to share. Be on time ladies so you don't miss out. The live session is free but the recording will only be available for channel members:
youtube.com/channel/UC6eDa4PdSJi-cCbAF2OA8mQ/join
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Reminder: We have our weekly ladies community Hangout (casual conversations) session, tomorrow at 10:00 am UK time bi-idhnillah.
Looking forward to connecting with new faces! (It's not recorded)
If you’re not on our WhatsApp groups, pls join feminine wives group: chat.whatsapp.com/L2zhQmqQUUg7eXvefkJ7SH?mode=gi_t
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Why do some children stop listening to their parents?
In many cases, it’s not due to defiance but patterns that develop over time.
Repeated instructions can lead children to delay responding.
Yelling may stop behavior temporarily but doesn’t teach self-control.
Lack of emotional connection can reduce cooperation.
Unrealistic expectations can overwhelm young children.
And discipline without guidance can leave them unsure of what to do.
The good news is that children’s behavior can be guided and shaped with the right approach.
If you want to reduce yelling and raise a more cooperative, emotionally intelligent child, this course can help.
✨ Defiant to Compliant
A practical Islamic parenting program for mothers of 3–7 year olds, focused on calm communication and effective discipline.
Check the link for more info. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/
#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #ParentingTips #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #MindfulMotherhood #ConsciousParenting
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