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Sometimes it’s not that children are ignoring their parents.

It’s that they’ve become less responsive to yelling over time.

While raising your voice may bring short-term results, it doesn’t build long-term cooperation or emotional understanding.

Instead, it can lead to cycles of frustration, guilt, and disconnection.

Children who feel overwhelmed or constantly corrected may resist more, shut down emotionally, or stop responding altogether.

The key to lasting behavior change is connection, guidance, and calm leadership.

If you want to stop the yelling cycle and raise a cooperative, emotionally secure child, this course was created for you.

✨ Defiant To Compliant

A practical Islamic parenting program for mothers of 3–7 year olds, focused on calm, connection, and effective discipline without yelling.

Check the link to enroll. www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

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Your life is a journey⁩. A journey shaped by purpose, and direction. At the heart of that journey is your ultimate goal: Jannah. But along the way, there are many smaller goals, dreams, and milestones that you will achieve.

No one gets to define your purpose for you. That is something only you can decide, between you and Allah. And once you understand your purpose, you begin to set goals that align with it, creating a path that is uniquely yours.

As a woman, it’s important to recognize the depth and honor of your role. We are all Allah’s Khulafa’ (stewards) on this earth, entrusted with a mission greater than ourselves: ويكون الدين كله لله. “Till Allah’s religion prevails on Earth (Al-Anfal: 39).
As a lady, your purpose includes nurturing and raising the next generation of believers, those who will progress this mission further.

When you enter marriage, it is not the end of your journey, it is the merging of two journeys. You are allowing someone to walk beside you, just as you walk beside them. You both come with your own paths, your own goals, and your own responsibilities. And together, you support each other in reaching them.
Marriage doesn’t mean you stop growing. It doesn’t mean you abandon your ambitions, your learning, or your personal development. Your life doesn’t pause, it continues.
Yes, you may need to become more flexible. You may need to adjust timelines, rethink certain plans, or balance new responsibilities like a spouse or children. Some goals may evolve over time. But your journey is still yours.
You were never created to live someone else’s life.
It’s a mistake to shrink yourself, to limit your education, your skills, or your potential, thinking it won’t matter later. Growth always matters. The effort you invest in yourself is never wasted.

Remember:
You are not created for a man.
You are created for your Creator.

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Al Qawarir Ladies Channel

The hardest part of yelling at your child isn’t the yelling itself.

It’s the feeling that comes after, the guilt, the regret, and the wish that you handled things differently.

Many parents struggle with emotional reactions, especially when they are overwhelmed, stressed, or exhausted.

But emotional reactions are not permanent.

They can be retrained with the right tools and guidance.

Calm parenting is not about perfection. It’s about learning how to respond with awareness, patience, and emotional control.

If you want to stop yelling and start responding with calm, this course is for you.

✨ Your Path To Lasting Calm

A practical Islamic parenting course designed to help mothers build calm, connection, and emotional resilience.

Check the link to join. alqwarir1.systeme.io/your-path-to-lasting-calm

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Why do moms end up yelling at their children?

For many parents, it follows the same pattern:

The child ignores instructions.
The parent repeats it several times.
Frustration begins to build.
And eventually the voice gets louder.

Not because the parent wants to yell but because they feel overwhelmed and unheard.

But the real issue is often disconnection, not discipline.

When children feel emotionally connected to their parents, they are more likely to cooperate and respond calmly.

If you want to stop the yelling cycle and raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children, this course was created for you.

✨ Defiant to Compliant

A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers of 3–7 year olds who want calmer, more connected parenting.

Click the link to join the course.
www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #ParentingTips #MuslimMothers #Tarbiyyah #MindfulMotherhood

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📚 Excerpts from the Book 📚
"How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish.

Chapter 1: Helping Children Deal With Their Feelings.

🔶When kids feel right, they will behave right. We help them feel right by accepting their feelings. But what happens many at times is the dismissal of feelings which makes kids confused about their feelings.

Scenario 1:

Child: I'm hungry
Mom: You can't be hungry, you just had a snack!
Child: But I'm hungry!
Mom: You're not hungry, you just want to disturb mom!

👆This conversation is telling the child not to trust their perceptions but rely on the mom's instead.

We can navigate through this by putting ourselves in our kid's shoes.

🔶Feelings can be helped through:
📍 Listening with full attention.
Actively listening to what a child is saying and putting away all distractions can make a big difference

📍 Acknowledgment of feelings with a word. Like "oh!", "Mmmhh!" "I see" . Words like these, coupled with a caring attitude, are invitations to a child to explore her own thoughts and feelings, and possibly come up with her own solutions.

📍 Giving their feelings a name. Urging a child to push a bad feelings away makes the child get more upset. Like saying, "stop crying, it is just a single necklace that got lost! You've got lots of it at home." Say instead, "you're sad"

🔴 NOTES 🔴

🔴Resist the temptation to "make better" instantly. Instead of giving advice, continue to listen and acknowledge their feelings.

🔴The time when you empathize with your child is when a child wants you to know how he feels.

🔴Instead of asking what happened? Or why are you feeling that way. Say , I see something is making you sad.

🔴Parents shouldn't respond to a child's feeling with a strong emotion (over reacting).
🚫Oh!, what your friend did is inexcusable! Why would she have done that, she is really selfish!

🔴For some kids, their parent's presence is enough comfort for them. No words, just silent calm moments beside each other with some *"pats"* , maybe.


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Al Qawarir Ladies Channel

You promised yourself you wouldn’t yell today.

But by the end of the day, your patience ran out and the guilt followed immediately.

Many mothers struggle with this cycle of yelling, regret, and exhaustion.

The truth is, young children are still learning emotional regulation, cooperation, and self-control. They need calm leadership, clear boundaries, and connection.

This is exactly what parents can learn through the right guidance.

✨ Defiant to Compliant course

A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers, designed to help raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children without yelling, threats, or punishment.

If you're ready to build a calmer home environment, check the link to enroll.
www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingCourse #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #MuslimMothers #ParentingTips #Tarbiyyah #ConsciousParenting #MindfulMotherhood

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I’ll be sharing some reflections on trauma InshaAllah. From tomorrow, you will begin to see trauma in a completely different light: what it truly is at its most basic level, and how you can protect yourself and your children from it.

Afterwards, you’re very welcome to ask questions, and please feel free to share this live session with your loved ones. youtube.com/live/G7iIXKgrIY0?feature=share

⚠️ Session Timing: the session will begin at 11am UK time (not 10am) on Sunday 5th of April, so be sure to set your alarms accordingly and come say salam :)

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I’ve been wanting to meet my Qawarir sisters in person for a while now. 🤍
So inshaAllah, I’m planning a special transformational gathering just for us!
If you’re based in Manchester, I would truly love for you to be part of this beautiful experience. Please join the group and invite any friends or family who would benefit too:
chat.whatsapp.com/Hjqf6A11pMIKI6uCTGMU9m?mode=gi_t

This is for all my Qawarir ladies in Manchester, I can’t wait to finally connect with you face to face, in a space filled with eemaan, growth, smiles and sisterhood ✨

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Al Qawarir Ladies Channel

Motherhood is not about perfection.

It’s about learning how to respond with wisdom, patience, and connection especially during the early years when children are forming their emotional foundations.

If you want to stop the cycle of yelling and raise emotionally intelligent, cooperative children, check out my parenting course:

✨ Defiant to Compliant course

A practical Islamic parenting course for mothers who want to build connection, calm discipline, and meaningful tarbiyyah.

Click the link to learn more: www.defianttocompliant.co.uk/

#IslamicParenting #MuslimParenting #ParentingTips #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #MuslimMoms #EmotionallyIntelligentKids #Tarbiyyah #GentleParenting

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Let’s focus on the quality ladies. Can’t wait to get back to you with amazing and interactive sessions 🙌🏻

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