...and denying the fact that you have them is the best way to guarantee you don't make any progress.
If you want to become truly great and dominate in every area of your life...
Learn to identify your holes and start working to patch them.
You will never be bulletproof.
...But the greatest of the great all have conversations with themselves about where they can improve and follow it up with a game plan and the execution to get better in these areas.
Not once.
Not twice.
Consistently over the course of their lives.
Can you say the same?
If you can't...
Don't expect to become truly undeniable.
Working to fix the holes in your game is required.
That's the truth.
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I used to think that all successful people were part of a club that only a select few lucky people got invited to and granted the ability to be or become successful.
I was wrong.
Nobody is going to come along and give you a seat at the table.
You must be undeniably great at what you do.
...and there are zero exceptions to this rule.
Success is earned.
Opportunities are earned.
A seat at the table is earned.
Become highly skilled and build yourself into someone who cannot be denied.
Only then will a seat become available to you.
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Andy Frisella
THE MOST IMPORTANT RULE OF ALL
Treat others the same way you wish to be treated.
That's the Golden Rule.
...and we've all heard it before.
But how many of us actually deploy this rule every day?
Talking about it is easy.
Living it is hard.
But regardless of how hard it may be...
The more you live it...
The more you'll be rewarded.
What you give is what you get and I truly believe this is the reason for 99% of what happens to you.
Good and bad.
So ask yourself...
Do you treat people the same way you wish to be treated?
Most don't.
But most people also never end up living or building a life they truly love.
Maybe that's why it's called the "Golden Rule."
...Because it's the most important rule of all.
Make sure you apply it.
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FIX THE HOLES IN YOUR GAME
What are your shortcomings?
What are your weaknesses?
What are the areas you need to improve in?
These are the holes in your game.
...and we all have them.
Me included.
Some of them may be big.
Some of them may be small.
Either way ... They are holes.
...and denying the fact that you have them is the best way to guarantee you don't make any progress.
If you want to become truly great and dominate in every area of your life...
Learn to identify your holes and start working to patch them.
You will never be bulletproof.
...But the greatest of the great all have conversations with themselves about where they can improve and follow it up with a game plan and the execution to get better in these areas.
Not once.
Not twice.
Consistently over the course of their lives.
Can you say the same?
If you can't...
Don't expect to become truly undeniable.
Working to fix the holes in your game is required.
That's the truth.
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Andy Frisella
BUILD YOURSELF INTO A WEAPON
Your life will get a lot easier when you stop expecting your life to get easier.
The world doesn't bend reality to suit your comfort level.
If you expect the way things are to change to your liking...
You are going to be frustrated, disappointed, unfulfilled, and broke in every way possible.
That's the truth.
Nobody owes you.
You owe you.
Want an easier life?
Want a better life?
Want a more fulfilling life?
Stop playing victim.
Take responsibility for yourself.
Get better.
Only then will life get "easier" for you.
...and not because your life will actually be easier...
You will just be stronger and better equipped to handle it.
Build yourself into a fucking weapon.
It's the only option you have.
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START ROOTING FOR OTHERS
Why should you root for people?
1. When you root for people, you tell the universe you love winning and it brings you more winning.
Believe in this like you believe in gravity.
It's real.
2. Iron sharpens iron and if you have a winners mentality ... you can be happy for people who win because it teaches you how to get better.
Especially if it's your competition.
Be extra thankful when they win.
Unless you're stupid of course...
Then you ignore your competition's wins and hate them "just because".
3. It's no fun winning alone.
It's way more fun when you can share your wins with other winners.
Hater shit is legitimately for losers.
It's poison.
Stay away from it.
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A SEAT AT THE TABLE IS EARNED
Your seat at the table must be earned.
I used to think otherwise.
I used to think that all successful people were part of a club that only a select few lucky people got invited to and granted the ability to be or become successful.
I was wrong.
Nobody is going to come along and give you a seat at the table.
You must be undeniably great at what you do.
...and there are zero exceptions to this rule.
Success is earned.
Opportunities are earned.
A seat at the table is earned.
Become highly skilled and build yourself into someone who cannot be denied.
Only then will a seat become available to you.
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INTENTIONAL ACTION IS THE ONLY WAY
Intentional action is the only way to end up where you really want to be.
A great life doesn't just materialize by chance.
It's dreamt.
It's planned.
It's executed on in a relentless fashion for as long as it takes.
Regardless of what your favorite "internet shaman" tries to tell you...
Floating through life and wishing isn't going to get it done.
Waiting isn't going to get it done.
Praying isn't going to get it done.
"Letting the energy flow" isn't going to get it done.
Disciplined, intentional action is the only way.
There is no way around busting your ass with the work.
Decide what you want.
Make a plan.
...and execute for as long as it fucking takes.
Nothing else is going to get it done.
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RECOGNITION IS RESERVED FOR CHAMPIONS
If recognition is what you're after...
You have to build yourself into the person who wins today...
Wins tomorrow...
...and wins 10 years from now.
True champions play the game differently.
They don't obsess over the score.
They run their play perfectly and know that the score will be a reflection of how well they executed.
They empty their tank every single day and never stop looking for ways to get better.
That's how they continue to win and completely dominate their competition.
It's not about the recognition for them...
It's about their execution and the never-ending process of becoming their undeniable best.
...Which happens to be the exact reason why the recognition eventually comes.
So if you're wondering what it's going to take for you to be noticed, praised, and recognized...
That's your answer.
You must become obsessed.
You must become undeniable.
You must become a champion.
Not fair?
Too bad.
I didn't make the rules.
I simply understand them.
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YOUR LIFE IS A BLESSING
Quit thinking "Why me?" when bad shit happens to you.
Maybe instead start thinking "Why me?" when great things happen to you.
Because the truth is...
You are not a victim.
You only think you are.
Most people struggle with constant feelings of pain and suffering because they fixate on all of the negative and unfavorable outcomes.
Spare yourself from the same feelings of pain and suffering.
Shift your focus away from all of the negative shit that happens to you...
...and start focusing on all of the great things you have in your life...
You will start to feel a lot more grateful and excited about your life immediately.
Bad shit happens to all of us...
Don't make it worse by dwelling on how you wish things could have gone differently or on how "bad" you have it.
Your life is a blessing.
Never forget that.
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THIS IS TRUE FOR ALL OF US...
All of us wish we were more of something we aren't sometimes.
All of us wish we were less of something we are sometimes.
Remember that when you go to be critical of someone.
Most of us out here are just doing the best we can.
Nobody out there is perfect.
Not you.
Not me.
Not anyone.
Stick together.
Help each other.
Be a problem solver.
Have discussions.
Question yourself.
Listen.
Learn.
Take action.
At the very least...
Don't be a dick.
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START EXERCISING COURAGE
If you lack the courage to speak the truth...
If you lack the courage to express your beliefs...
...and if you lack the courage to stand up against bullshit and evil...
It's highly unlikely you have the courage to do what will be required of you to be successful long-term.
You may not like hearing that ... but it's a reality of life and success.
Massive amounts of courage is needed.
The more you exercise your courage...
The more of it you'll have.
The more of it you have...
The better you'll do in all areas of your life.
Losers are cowards.
Winners are courageous savages who speak the truth and tolerate zero bullshit.
I find it interesting how more people don't see this...
Because it seems real fucking clear to me.
Start exercising courage.
Start speaking the truth and standing tall in your beliefs.
It's required.
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