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This will be the best year of your life

1 week ago | [YT] | 1

Fulfillment Obi

The “Funeral Theory” says this: no matter how popular you are, only a few people—maybe around ten—will genuinely cry at your funeral.
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And here’s the harder truth:
If the weather is bad, only about half of the people who know you will even show up.
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Yet many of us spend our lives trying to please everyone.
We soften our words, shrink ourselves, and live in ways that keep others comfortable.
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We worry so much about approval from people who wouldn’t bring an umbrella for us — people who won’t stand in the rain while we’re being laid to rest.
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In the end, it’s never about the crowd. It’s about the few who show up, rain or shine. The ones who truly know you, love you, and choose you—even when it’s inconvenient.
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So stop living for applause. Live for depth.




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3 weeks ago | [YT] | 1

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Have you ever noticed how, no matter how hard you work, money still manages to slip through your fingers? You hustle, you plan, you push yourself, and yet somehow, it feels like you’re stuck in the same cycle of stress, scarcity, and frustration. You’re not alone. Most people are trapped in invisible patterns that silently dictate their financial outcomes, habits that are so common, so normalized, that we rarely even notice them.

Here’s the truth. The reason you’re financially stuck isn’t about laziness, bad luck, or lack of intelligence. It’s about subtle habits you may have inherited, picked up over time, or developed in response to the world around you. The good news is once you see them, you can break them. And the first step is understanding that change is less about doing more and more about doing differently.


READ FULL STORIES HERE - www.patreon.com/posts/hidden-habits-to-144985304

1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 2

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If you've been stressing about money, this is the video that fixes everything

1 month ago | [YT] | 0

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What Self-Forgiveness Really Feels Like

There’s a quiet kind of pain people don’t talk about.
Not heartbreak. Not betrayal.
The pain of **not forgiving yourself**.

I made a mistake once and convinced myself everyone hated me.
No one said a word… but I punished myself anyway.
I replayed the moment again and again.
I attacked myself before anyone else could.
I thought guilt meant growth.
I thought shame meant maturity.

It took me years to realize I wasn’t protecting myself.
I was breaking myself.

The past version of you wasn’t evil.
They were scared.
They were trying.
And they deserve compassion too.

If you’re tired of carrying guilt that no one asked you to hold…
my new letter might be exactly what your heart needs today.

Read the full piece on patreon
www.patreon.com/posts/144513369

1 month ago | [YT] | 1

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Maybe there are things you are experiencing but can't explain or don't understand this video is for you

1 month ago | [YT] | 0

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For years I lived a lie
I told myself I got everything figured out
I preach productivity but the truth is that my life was a mess.

Here in this article I shared my story and how I went from being a procrastinator, a pretender to building a foundation and a system that helped me achieve my goals, stay on schedule, stay consistent without force, burnout or discipline.

I also uncover the lies in popular advice like "just do it", "be disciplined" that kept me trapped

You can't miss this read
www.patreon.com/posts/144082989?utm_campaign=posts…

1 month ago | [YT] | 2

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🛑 Stop Drifting. Start Defining.

The decisions you make this December are not small, they are the blueprints for your entire 2026. Most people wait until January 1st to start planning. We start now.

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1 month ago | [YT] | 2

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I hope one day you'll find your voice so you can share all the beautiful imagination you have with the world and maybe one person will be inspired by it and go on to change the world

1 month ago | [YT] | 3

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Dear friend,

There is a voice that lives in every one of us.
It is not loud in the way noise is loud.
It does not shout in the streets or make grand speeches.
It whispers quietly in your head when no one else is around.

It is the voice that says you are not enough.
The one that mocks your pace, your progress, your worth.
It speaks when you wake up late, when your plans do not go as expected, or when you scroll through your phone and see someone else smiling in ways you have not smiled in months.

I know that voice. I have heard it too.
And for a long time, I believed it.

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The Day I Compared My Life Away

It was an ordinary afternoon. I was tired and trying to take a short break, so I opened WhatsApp and started going through people’s statuses. I was not looking for anything in particular, just passing time.

Then I saw a familiar name.
A friend from college. Someone I had not spoken to in a while.

Their updates came in short bursts. A new car, a beautiful house, fancy pictures from a night out, smiling faces, glowing lights. It looked like a dream.

I stared for a while. My heart started to feel heavy.
Without realizing it, I began comparing.

In seconds, my mind built an entire story.
Look at them. They are doing so well.
And you? You are still struggling, still trying, still behind.

That small whisper grew louder until it filled my whole mind. It told me I was wasting my life. That all my effort meant nothing. That I was supposed to be further ahead.

The funny thing is, I was not lazy. I was working hard. I was pushing through a difficult season of life, chasing a dream that did not come with quick rewards. But the moment I saw those images, all of that vanished.

I began to blame myself. I told myself I was not enough.

I did not even question what I saw. I did not ask if that friend was happy or if those things were real. I just decided that because they had something I did not, I was failing.

That is what the inner critic does.
It does not care about truth. It only looks for evidence to hurt you.

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2 months ago | [YT] | 1