If I'm Really Honest

Want to seek truth without tribalism? Wish you could be fully honest instead of carrying your team's flag? This is a place where ignorance isn’t punished, curiosity is rewarded, and conflict doesn’t mean contempt.

Host Jamin Coller sits down with people you’re not “supposed” to talk to - former extremists, outspoken pastors, rabbis, activists, skeptics, believers, and thinkers from every corner of the spectrum. They share stories and challenge ideas that most of us were taught to avoid, whether the topic is faith, politics, science, identity, or the messy places in between.

This isn’t about winning arguments or trading insults. If you’re tired of echo chambers and ready to explore the conversations that matter most, subscribe to If I’m Really Honest and join the growing community willing to embrace the most courageous idea: Maybe I'm wrong.


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After hearing memory specialist Lynn Nadel, do you think the hippocampus is primarily about…

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Which part of the conversation with Dr. Lynn Nadel fascinated you most?

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Free Will, Trauma, and the Hippocampus - In this episode, Dr. Lynn Nadel and I explore free will, trauma responses, and the boundaries of expertise. We also dive into why the smartest people are the ones who say ‘I don’t know.’ This conversation will challenge what you think you know about memory and decision-making. Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbXPh...

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Dr. Lynn Nadel—coauthor of The Hippocampus as a Cognitive Map—sits down with me to unpack what memory really is, how the hippocampus maps our experiences, and why the word ‘muscle memory’ is so misleading. This is one of the world’s leading scientists on memory talking with a piano teacher who escaped a cult. Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbXPh...

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We all have a terminal diagnosis. It’s uncomfortable, but true. What would change in your life if you spent more time thinking about the end of life? Laurel Nicholson and I dive into that question in this new episode. Watch and let’s talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3Jar...

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If someone in your family were dying, which would you want most?

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Would you ever try labeling your alarm ‘Imagine the Worst’ and picturing losing everything before you start your day?

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Imagine starting each day by picturing the absolute worst—losing everything you value—and then slowly giving it all back. That’s how this week’s guest and I opened our conversation about death, faith, and gratitude. Christian death doula Laurel Nicholson shares what really happens at the end of life and how churches can serve families better. Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3Jar...

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“Maybe my story becomes someone else’s survival manual.” – Tim Mills (The Harmonic Atheist)

Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is tell our story honestly.
📝 Do you think sharing personal stories is more impactful than debating theology or evidence?

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Which factor do you think changes minds the most?

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