diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

This reel popped up. I typed in DWD to learn more and look what popped up. This is extremely sad.

People who suffer deeply are met with judgement and are demonized and criticized. They should be met with empathy and compassion instead of rejection and gaslighting

#deathwithdignity #compassionatecareact #antinatalism

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diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

So much of life is built on luck. Where you were born, who you were born to and how they treated you.

This thought came to me because of a certain celebrity who is outrageously paid for endorsements , but yet has no altruistic or antinatalist connections. In fact they are the worst form of natalist, but society doesn't condemn or question natalism.

* this person was a golden child. An only child
diANe 2026

11 hours ago (edited) | [YT] | 13

diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

There's nothing untrue, unfair or unethical about antinatalism so why oppose it? diANe 2026

11 hours ago | [YT] | 9

diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

I would be so embarrassed to the point of mortification if an unpleasant flaw, genetic trait, bodily proportion component or cosmetic imperfection would invade my offspring and I see these 'invasions' constantly in life
diANe 2026

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diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

A DELIGHTFUL REVELATION FROM A CHILDFREE ANTINATALIST

"I’m 34, childfree, living in a country where womanhood and worth are measured by childbirth. Because I chose differently, I’m often treated as useless, defective, or quietly pitied. Sometimes people say it outright. More often, it leaks through their tone, their questions, their assumptions.

I never had baby fever. Even as a kid, while other girls played house, I gravitated toward sports, music, and animals. I like children in small doses. I love being able to give them back. I have never wanted full-time responsibility for another human being.

Almost everyone in my life eventually became a parent, and there is no real escape for them. In my community, fathers are largely absent from the labor of parenting, which means women carry nearly all of it. I tried, for years, to stay connected. But every phone call and hangout was swallowed by screaming, fighting, interruptions, and exhaustion. When we went out, the conversations revolved entirely around children. I didn’t relate, and honestly, I didn’t want to.

I asked for one-on-one time. It never worked. Someone always needed them. A husband called. A child cried. Even when they were physically with me, their minds were elsewhere. Over time, I pulled back. Friendships thinned into shared reels and occasional check-ins. They still invite me. They still try. But I’ve grown distant, and I’ve found more peace in the company of animals.

I’m grateful for my husband, my family, and the life we’ve built. But I still grieve what was lost. I miss the way we used to sit for hours, talk about nothing and everything, laugh until we couldn’t breathe, be unburdened, spontaneous, alive.

Sometimes the FOMO hits hard. I catch myself wondering if motherhood is the admission ticket back into those friendships. If becoming a mom is the price of belonging again.

But the truth is, I didn’t opt out lightly. I chose this life deliberately, and my husband fully supports that choice.

My reasons are many:

• existential dread about the world we are handing down
• loss of bodily and personal autonomy
• climate collapse and environmental destruction
• polluted land, water, and air
• global violence and systemic injustice
• cancer, chronic illness, and fragile healthcare systems
• economic instability and rising costs of survival
• anger issues I’ve worked hard to manage
• unresolved childhood trauma
• fear of pregnancy
• fear of labor
• fear of becoming trapped in a body I no longer recognize
• fear of having a child with severe special needs without adequate support
• fear of resenting a life I didn’t want
• financial insecurity
• the psychological damage of constant surveillance, screens, and social media
• the possibility of passing on severe allergies and asthma
• the desire for sleep, silence, solitude, and freedom
• the need for mental spaciousness
• the knowledge that love alone does not make parenting survivable

There are probably more reasons. I think about them often.

I didn’t choose childfreedom because I hate children. I chose it because I know myself. And because I refuse to create a life out of fear, obligation, or loneliness.

Even if it costs me belonging”.

-Anonymous

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diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

Spencer & Monique Tepe murders

It would have been better if they were never born. They produced 2 small children who the media says were spared from being killed like their parents. But were they really spared? They now have the trauma of growing up parentless. Do you think the couple ever saw this coming when they decided to reproduce ? No. No parent foresees the future and seemingly they don't care ... hence we have 8.3 billion people in the world

We have yet another senseless act of male violence here because her ex husband of only a 7 month marriage savagely killed both of them , but reproduction itself is a senseless & passive aggressive act !

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diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

The international antinatalist society of Facebook

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diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

#equality #maleviolence

1 day ago | [YT] | 10

diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

So 3 people in my world have had serious losses and horrific ones lately. Every day is an opportunity for horror. Horror is ingrained in the fabric of life .

Take your pick: human trafficking, plane crash, sui***, mur***, 🍇, hurricane, limb loss , gunman attacks, flesh eating disease, stroke

Your 20 year old job could end tomorrow and thieves could hack your bank account.

Having a large family is no measure of security because they are all fragile and needy . Even the strong ones will falter , get sick or die.

I keep losing valuable 'helpers' in life. Just out of the blue a very lovely person I knew quit her job to take care of elderly parents. I'm left without her service and friendship. I have to start all over again replacing her which is impossible. Nothing is permanent or reliable. Businesses collapse, people are dishonest. Things break or let you down

Literally I think my cope is food because it's always there and I can control it , so I'll never be at an ideal weight . America has tons of affordable food.

The one thing that is constant in my life is ANTINATALISM. Even through tragedy it's a difficult sell for most people. They just ignore its truth !

I'm one of very few consistent female advocates of this philosophy. For 11 years now I've been active locally and internationally spreading knowledge that having children is wrong and immoral. I stop at nothing to educate others!

It garners me no favor in the real world!! My *advocacy has costed me thousands of dollars surprisingly over a discriminatory action for my beliefs. But truthfully, the world doesn't deserve my explanation. People watch, they gawk, but they don't support.
When it comes down to it you put your money where your mouth is!!

There are so many regrets spreading this truth and remaining a female warrior. I'm simply dedicated to altruism and I cannot relinquish my goals in that respect.
I'm not the only one who has been penalized!!!


Just be aware that the outspoken faces of AN are martyrs because this is a very hated philosophy. Many AN are hidden and clandestine , but that's not my choice. I've lended a face to the philosophy and I've seen some very bad and unethical people associated with AN . The envious, the bullies and the misogynists are alive and well in AN.

You who view us are snuggled up safe and sound.
You remain protected. We do not.

2 days ago | [YT] | 18

diANtinatalist (Childfree diANe)

Male orgasm #penis #ejaculation

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