Hi, I'm Aileen! Lavendaire is a channel about personal growth & lifestyle design, where I share knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life. ✨

Here you'll find content on: self development, intentional living, self love, habits, healing, mindset, guided meditations, positive affirmations, & more.

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In short, Lavendaire is for the artist of life.

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Happy Self-Love Friday 🥰 What do you really need today, my loves?

You don’t have to be “on” all the time.
You don’t have to fix everything today.

Sometimes the most powerful thing is simply sitting with yourself—gently, fully, without judgment.

Let that be your gift this weekend. 💝

🎨Unknown, Unknown, Love KAUR, Lea Androic, Latte of Love Designs

2 days ago | [YT] | 3,072

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Hello, self-love Friday! 👑

In the pursuit of your dreams, don’t forget to pause and appreciate the blessings already in your life. Wishing you a weekend full of peace, love, and gratitude. 🌺

🎨Unknown, Captivating Crazy, Unknown, Twillostory, Twillostory

1 week ago | [YT] | 5,250

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Happy Self-Love Friday 💖

Your dreams have the power to lift you higher—let them be your wings. Enjoy a beautiful, restful weekend! 🌷

🎨Asja Boroš, love KAUR, Malaika Ishtiaq, love KAUR, Unknown

2 weeks ago | [YT] | 3,592

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It’s self-love o’clock! 💖

You may not see it yet, but every moment of effort is shaping you into something even more beautiful. Keep nurturing yourself—your bloom is inevitable. 💐

🎨Mansi Daksh, Friday Concepts, Unknown, Unknown, joyfulsmolthings

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 6,698

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Your life is a garden 🌿

And every part of your life—your relationships, health, career, creativity, emotions—is like a different plant that needs care, in its own way, and in its own time.

Some areas need more tending than others. Some seasons require more attention in one space than another. The key is being mindful of where you’re placing your time, energy, and focus—your most precious resources. ✨

What are you currently watering in your life right now?

And what might need a little more love?

3 weeks ago | [YT] | 2,623

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How are you feeling today, my loves? 💛

Just a gentle reminder: even the smallest spark of light can brighten the darkest moments. Keep shining! ✨

🎨Unknown, Unknown, Just Girl Project, Unknown, Unknown,

4 weeks ago | [YT] | 5,174

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Self love is so much more than a feeling—it’s a practice. A commitment to showing up for yourself, again and again.

These quotes and ideas are pulled from my recent video: 5 Lessons I’d Tell My Younger Self About Self Love

If you’ve ever struggled with self-worth, perfectionism, or negative self-talk, this one’s for you. 💖

✨ Watch the full video: bit.ly/3F4MxnP

1 month ago | [YT] | 2,034

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Self-love Friday is here! 💖

Slow down, soak in the simple moments, and let gratitude fill your heart. One day, these little things will mean everything. Have a beautiful weekend! 🌸

🎨Color Me Happii, Latte of Love Designs, Pinklay India, Wonder Doodles

1 month ago | [YT] | 3,890

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Happy self-love friday, my loves!

Who we are today is a version of us that has never existed before—let’s be patient. 💜

🎨 latte of love designs, unknown, latte of love designs, soni_artist, designs by aria

1 month ago | [YT] | 3,144

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happy self-love friday, my loves! 💗

carry love and positivity with you wherever life takes you ✨ have a beautiful day ahead!

🎨iuliastration, unknown, primitiva jewelry, soni_artist, soni_artist

1 month ago | [YT] | 4,624