Hi, I'm Aileen! Lavendaire is a channel about personal growth & lifestyle design, where I share knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life. ✨
Here you'll find content on: self development, intentional living, self love, habits, healing, mindset, guided meditations, positive affirmations, & more.
Lavendaire is for the dreamers who believe. For those who are smart, curious, and conscious, with an open mind, a love for learning, and a deep desire to live a brilliant and vibrant life.
In short, Lavendaire is for the artist of life.
// Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece. //
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You already have everything you need to transform your life.
I used to think some things about myself were just "fixed"—my habits, my patterns, the way I showed up in the world. But here's what I've learned about creating real, lasting change.
It's not about willpower or waiting for the perfect moment. It's about believing it's actually possible for you, then staying consistent long enough to build momentum.
The truth is, we all have everything we need to change. It's just a matter of trusting ourselves enough to begin and persevere long enough to see it through.
The beautiful thing? Once you prove to yourself that change is possible in one area, it becomes easier to believe it's possible everywhere else too.
What's one area of your life that's ready for a shift? ✨
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Happy self-love friday 💙
You are the artist of your life, my love. Art isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, being true, and letting the beauty within you shine. ✨
🎨 unknown, that mum life, lettering with lov, unknown, color me happii
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Celebrating 11 years + 1 month since starting Lavendaire 💐✨
2.5m subscribers, 200m+ views, 1100+ videos created on YouTube since 2014.
Our beautiful community of the kindest souls, growing together over the years.
The tens of thousands of dreams held & nurtured in @shoplavendaire workbooks.
The lessons learned & connections made on the @lavendairelifestyle podcast.
In all honesty I don’t always feel so confident in this journey. It’s an ongoing balancing act when your career is entwined with this social media machine that can easily test your mental health and self worth. But taking a step back and looking at the bigger picture, I’m in tears over how proud I am for doing the thing. For starting, committing, and continuing to create and share my ideas through the highs and lows.
I started Lavendaire to share my newfound belief at the time: that we are all artists of our lives, with the power to create the dream life we imagined.
I set forth to explore that idea, to learn everything I could around how to *actually* create the life of your dreams—and to share it all with you.
That journey led me through many waves of growth and evolution. Through building my self belief, dedication, and confidence; cultivating self love, trust, patience and perseverance; through burnout and self awareness and so much inner healing.
I’m grateful that I’ve been able to see many of my dreams come true. But more so, I’ve learned that achieving your dream life is more about *how you feel* in the present moment, than whatever exists on the outside. The details and the *how* matter less, so you don’t have to force things to go your way all the time.
Of course, I still continue to dream, and to follow my heart to whatever excites me. One dream I’m guided to next is to finally write my book— 📖 if you want to stay updated, join my email list! lavendaire.com/mail
To this day, my mission remains the same:
To empower all of us to shine as our brightest selves and create our dream lives.
Because we all have a light within, and the power to create a life we love.
✨ Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece. ✨
Thank you so much for being a part of this journey.
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Happy self-love friday 🦋
How are you feeling today, my loves? Whatever’s on your heart, know that it’s okay to feel it all. Sending you love as you care for yourself this weekend. 💛
🎨Lea Androic, Lea Androic, Pru-Art, Miss Pink Coconut, Unknown
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It’s self-love o’clock! 💗
You’re allowed to grow beyond what once held you. Noticing the pattern is powerful—and choosing differently? That’s self-love. 🦋
🎨to you from steph, to you from steph, to you from steph, mhn, mohiunsaidpen
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Happy self-love friday! 💗
Keep going with those little steps, my loves—they’re already creating something beautiful behind the scenes. ✨
🎨Lei, Unknown, Twillostory, Friday Concepts, Drawsy Minimal
3 weeks ago | [YT] | 3,881
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Happy Self-Love Friday 🥰 What do you really need today, my loves?
You don’t have to be “on” all the time.
You don’t have to fix everything today.
Sometimes the most powerful thing is simply sitting with yourself—gently, fully, without judgment.
Let that be your gift this weekend. 💝
🎨Unknown, Unknown, Love KAUR, Lea Androic, Latte of Love Designs
1 month ago | [YT] | 3,746
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Hello, self-love Friday! 👑
In the pursuit of your dreams, don’t forget to pause and appreciate the blessings already in your life. Wishing you a weekend full of peace, love, and gratitude. 🌺
🎨Unknown, Captivating Crazy, Unknown, Twillostory, Twillostory
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Happy Self-Love Friday 💖
Your dreams have the power to lift you higher—let them be your wings. Enjoy a beautiful, restful weekend! 🌷
🎨Asja Boroš, love KAUR, Malaika Ishtiaq, love KAUR, Unknown
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It’s self-love o’clock! 💖
You may not see it yet, but every moment of effort is shaping you into something even more beautiful. Keep nurturing yourself—your bloom is inevitable. 💐
🎨Mansi Daksh, Friday Concepts, Unknown, Unknown, joyfulsmolthings
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