Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

Stop waiting for a sign. Grow your spine. Now is it. DO IT, LADY!

Stop. Read this with your whole body.

If you wake up with Sunday dread, if your boss’s ping tightens your chest, if you overthink every email, if you whisper sorry for existing, if you are lying next to someone you do not want and telling yourself you have no money options, you are not broken. You are rehearsed.

Your brain repeats. Your life repeats. New repeat, new reality.

God did not hand you fear. He handed you power, love, a sound mind. In another timeline, the you who chose life is already standing. She learned one money skill. She told the truth once. She took one steady action daily. She is not special. She decided.

As you read, notice your breath. Let your shoulders drop. Feel your feet. As your body steadies, your mind clears. As your mind clears, your next step appears. This is how wiring shifts. This is how futures change.

Say this out loud right now. I choose life. I choose clean money. I choose a sturdy yes and a clean no. I choose to honor God in my decisions. I choose to be a creator, not a captive.

You are not waiting for a sign. You are waiting for your spine. Now is it. In the words of the prophet poet, Chit - DO IT LADY!

Comment I CHOOSE and I will give you your first three moves. A fast money skill. A boundary sentence that lands. A two minute reset that calms your system anywhere.

This is your Power Point. NOW. Its the only time you have power. Step onto it.

#SturdyNotSorry #ChooseLife #CreatorNotCaptive #ParallelLives #FUMoney

2 months ago | [YT] | 2

Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

Hey Love,


Let’s not tiptoe around this.


**The pain you keep feeling?
The tension in your chest?
The constant second-guessing, shrinking, scanning the room to see if you’re “too much” or “not enough”?**


It was *never* about the moment.


It was the *context* you were trained to carry.


You’ve been living inside a story that didn’t start with you.
But it’s been *ruling you* like gospel.


A look. A tone. A pause in a conversation—and suddenly your whole body flinches.
You brace. You withdraw. You wonder, *“What did I do wrong?”*


But here’s the truth that’ll change your life:


**You weren’t reacting to *them*.
You were reacting to a script.**


A heavy, outdated, *hand-me-down script* that says:


➤ I’m not safe.
➤ I’m not wanted.
➤ I have to perform to belong.
➤ People are waiting to reject me.
➤ I’m too much. I’m not enough. I’m exhausting. I’m invisible.


And you’ve been dragging that script into every room like a bag of bricks.


But listen to me right now:


**That script? Was *never* yours.
And you don’t have to carry it another damn day.**


I worked with someone recently who was stuck in that exact loop.


Every meeting felt like a threat.
Every silence felt like judgment.
Even home felt like work—like they had to earn love or else.


You know what we did?


We burned the old script to the ground.


We *rewrote the context*—on their terms.
Because context isn’t truth. It’s just a frame.
And if it was learned… it can be unlearned. Rewired. *Reclaimed.*


**You hold the key.
You *always* have.**


This isn’t some fluffy affirmation BS.
This is nervous system deep.
Cellular-level truth.


You feel off because your *body* still thinks you’re in danger.
But babe—you’re not in danger anymore.
You’re in a *choice point.*


⚡That tightening in your gut?
⚡That urge to explain, perform, apologize for just existing?


That’s your body echoing a context that no longer fits.


**And today, right now, you get to say:
NO MORE.**


You’re not too sensitive.
You’re not crazy.
You’re not broken.


You’re just *tired of living like you’re still in a war zone you already survived.*


So let me say this loud:


**This is yours. It’s *always* been yours.
Your power. Your truth. Your voice.
You just got taught to forget it.**


But now?


Now you remember.


You get to create a context that feels like FREEDOM.
That feels like *home* in your own body.
That feels like “I belong—because I said so.”


And when you learn how to shift your context on command?


Game. Over.


**You stop waiting for permission.
You stop adjusting your volume to be digestible.
You stop chasing people who don’t even know how to see you.**


You start leading.


You start owning.


You start living like the damn *key holder* you’ve always been.


So if this cracked you open—*good*.


That’s not a coincidence. That’s your nervous system screaming:


**“THIS. IS. THE. WAY. OUT.”**


I’m here for you.
Ready when you are.


We don’t just talk about change in my world.
We *make it real*.


**Sliding Door Sessions** are open.
The door’s cracked.
You ready to walk through?


Spice and Fire and ALL THE FREAKING LOVE,
Brandi


Sliding Door Sessions, Private 1:1 available: brandilmoran.com/shop/4bf40428-bd5c-4cfb-9c66-56ef…

4 months ago | [YT] | 6

Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

You're Not Lazy. You're Performing a Life That’s Not Yours.

You're not the problem. But the story you've been living in is. This video is for you to show you you GET to decide to get out of your own way—and finally stop doing the things that are making you miserable.

You know what’s exhausting?
Doing things you don’t want to do…
Thinking thoughts you don’t even agree with…
Living by rules you didn’t choose…
and calling it being a good person.

Let me say it plain:
You're not broken.
You're just stuck in an identity that was built to survive, not to live.

And if you’ve been trying to change your habits, your mindset, your reactions—but it still feels like a fight—
It’s not because you’re lazy or unmotivated.
It’s because you’re trying to upgrade the software without changing the operating system.

I help people change their operating system.
I teach people how to notice the things they’re doing that are making them miserable—and then change their mind about who they think they have to be.

This isn’t about becoming someone better.
It’s about stopping the performance of who you’re not.

That shift?
It’s not fluff. It’s not “nice to have.”
It’s a painkiller.
It’s relief. It’s clarity. It’s finally being on your own side.

Because once you see it—
Once you see that you don’t have to keep playing that role—
You’ll stop trying to self-improve the mask
and finally start being someone you can live with: yourself.

You are ON the side of the door where the lock is love,

come on thru.

Brandi

5 months ago (edited) | [YT] | 2

Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

What if I told you… the way you look at a newborn baby? That awe-filled silence, that heart-wide ache?

That’s how love sees you.

Not just on your best day. Not just when you’re radiant and wise. But especially on the days when the shame hits hardest… when you wonder if you're too late, too messy, too much.

That’s when love leans in closer, tilts your chin gently, and says:

"Oh my love… you forgot again. But I haven’t."

It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being human—and letting yourself be looked at by something bigger, something eternal.

You are already held. Already seen.

Ready to remember?

5 months ago | [YT] | 4

Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

Whose eyes are you looking at yourself through?

Maybe the ones that forgot how to love.
The ones that handed you their shame and called it truth.
The ones that couldn’t see you, even when you were right in front of them.

It’s okay.
That happens when you’ve spent years in survival, years performing safety instead of feeling it.

But just for now—
take a breath… and imagine what it would feel like
to be seen the way immortal Love sees you.
No judgment. No performance. Just belonging. Just beauty. Just being.

I made something for that. For you.

It’s not just a meditation.
It’s a remembering.

Let it wash over you.
Let your body decide if it’s safe to soften.

You don’t even have to believe it all yet—
Just listen for the parts that hum.
The parts that say,
"Yes... this. This feels like home."

Listen here: https://youtu.be/pIOQEgx4sh0?si=4RE5h...
And if it helps… save it. Come back whenever you forget again. I’ll be right here.

5 months ago | [YT] | 1

Brandi Moran Sturdy and Free, Your Future Unbound

You used to enjoy your scary movie fetish. You used to love the fear coursing through your body. Now you feel how hard you brace now that you are when your scary movie fetish is being reflected back to you in your waking life. <3

Hey love,



What if—right now—you didn’t have to hold it all?



What if, in the space between this sentence and the next...

…your shoulders softened just a little

…the breath in your belly got just a bit deeper

…and the part of you that’s been gripping, guarding, bracing—

started to wonder if maybe... just maybe... it could stop.



You see, your body was brilliant.

It held. It clenched. It adapted.

It kept you upright when everything felt upside-down.



But what kept you safe then—

might be the very thing making it hard to feel safe now.



And here’s the beautiful news:

It’s safe to soften.

It’s allowed to settle.

Your nervous system knows how to unwind.



You don’t have to force your way back into your body.

You don’t have to earn ease.

You just get to remember.



Remember what it feels like to move without fear.

To rest without guilt.

To be in your body and feel... good.



This is your invitation to exhale the old holding.

To whisper “thank you” to the armor.

And to gently open the door to trust.



Here, I made this for me yesterday while I was noticing how TIGHT I was after listening to the folks at the W2 retelling the tales of fear and chaos in the world. I went out to the car and created something deeply nourishing to help me - and I want to share with you now:

A tapping ritual to melt the fascia, unwind old pain, and show your body what safety feels like again.



It's not just EFT—it's a love note to your tissues.



Here is the link to listen and tap along.

on.soundcloud.com/1s99SgLvpZ8SxEtf7


Because the world needs the version of you that moves with ease.

That lives inside your body with joy.

That trusts your pace, your pleasure, your path.



And that version of you?

Is already on the way home.



Sturdy, Human, Barefoot & Holy - you.



What would you be doing if you were not distracted by your fears and investing in more bracing?, The world is NOT gonna get less weird, love. You get to learn how to not be traumatized and terrified by it.



Until you realize, maybe this is the part of being human that you go to scary movies for. The THRILL of the scare.



Either way, learning to look at it without bracing, or LOVING how hard you are bracing - you get to choose your adventure, love.



Love you so,



B



You are watching the world and telling yourself stories about it - what story do you WANT to tell about all this? That its the worst time ever? That there is nothing but hellishness on this earth? Or that you are watching things happen that you NEVER could have imagined and DESIRE to imagine things coming out of this that humans never UNDERSTOOD they needed and desired so much?

You get to choose, love - and first - lets help the beast of our body settle in

Wanna know more about Porch Party ? Clickie da Linkie in my profile

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