This is the YouTube version of the INVISIBLE WIFE. podcast soon to be released on Substack, Apple & Spotify. How do I move on from complete invalidation by my husband? No one tells you that the hell you go through after the cancer is far worse than the hell of your spouse’s cancer. Joe has systematically cut all his family out of his life…. I can now see that he has ghosted me. I told my husband, “ I did not give you CANCER.. why do you hate me so?” I thought we were a team…evidently not. Every dream I had with Joe must have been a deception. I was hoping for a life together with my husband…. the only one together is him and someone else who is NOT ME. I am INVISIBLE… but it seems my money and status is not. No one would believe what Joe has done to me.

What should be a time to celebrate has become instead a time of emotional betrayal and trauma.
My husband systematically manipulated, lied, gaslighted, emotionally betrayed me. This was never the cancer