A healthy relationship feels like steady rain on warm ground. Not dramatic, not loud, just quiet water that helps everything grow.
1 month ago | 83
That’s a result of how people are treated as children. If someone hasn’t healed from that kind of toxic & unstable dynamic, a love interest with those characteristics can “feel like home”. I prefer stability & steadiness. That isn’t boring to me at all. I thrive in that situation. No games or dramatic ups & downs for me!
1 month ago | 32
When your body gets tense every time you receive a message, it is a sign something has to change.
1 month ago | 6
Only fearful avoidants. Get bored at healthy relationships. The other styles. Anxious. Secure and dismissive do not so much I don’t think. (Attachment styles. ). Personally I have never been bored a day in my life
1 month ago | 0
My husband creates such great atmosphere for a love filled relationship, I wouldn't have asked for a better man
4 weeks ago | 1
I was once in a healthy relationship and I definitely felt bored and out of touch asking myself if this is normal. My childhood, teenage years and adulthood have been abusive and toxic, and still is. I'm just learning things the hard way and now living with my consequences
1 month ago | 5
That's why they invented action movies and that's why they invented interesting dates and amusement parks and learning having having interesting conversations and going to events and doing fun things like it doesn't have to be that way
4 weeks ago | 0
I can literally feel my nervous system regulating, when I sit and just integrate the calmness that is. ❤
1 month ago | 5
I needed to experience this growing up. By the time I heard it for the first time I’d been complicit in continuing the cycle of generational trauma that trained me to live as I was taught. I’m learning now because it’s never too late to model it for my own grown kids & grandchildren, who will blindly follow the pattern if I don’t act on what I’ve learned. I want better for them than I had the chance to live for really, 7 decades & counting.
1 month ago | 4
Thank you Jesus for leading my home. Shout to my man! ❤ forever his
1 month ago | 42
Exactly,so many people are prepared to just settle for what they're used to. Me I'm different and I won't and don't settle for chaos and drama. I know my worth and I love me. I don't compete,compare,force,manipulate or chase. I am who I am perfectly imperfect ❤🙏
1 month ago | 8
Lust, infatuation or drama, abuse and toxicity is boring. It’s not exciting. A calm and stable relationship with bouts of love and lust, wins any day. The excitement comes and goes. That’s healthy. Any exhaustion in the equation, is caused by work or responsibilities, not because of stability. It’s a country side love. The type where you can sip red wine in the garden and go for walks on the beach. The perfect dynamic to raise a family in ❤
1 month ago (edited) | 2
Healthy coupling can also be dynamic and growth-producing. Don’t wanna be too identical in everything we think & feel.
1 month ago | 3
Wow...😢 is this what it is like to be in a normal healthy relationship, and I bring the drama because that's what I'm used to from past relationships? I may need to take a step back and reset
1 month ago | 3
....they should follow Jay Shetry to help learn about it. I know this channel has done me well ‼️ I am grateful for all the content and it's creator. 😊
1 month ago | 4
Jay Shetty Podcast
Something to think about ❤️
1 month ago | [YT] | 16,272