Third Option: you ask your date questions but they don't ask the questions back to you. Boy this is not an interview🙃
8 months ago | 6
Option 3. Agreeing to a date, planning on not showing, due to lack of interest. Well then, just don't schedule a date. Just tell the person "no" when they ask for a date.
8 months ago | 6
Third option: The date was in the morning. It was a picnic set up and the person didn’t show up because that person woke up super late. The person didn’t show up. To make matters WORSE, there was a lame apology. I was furious.
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Option three: You have nothing in common when it comes to your goals, you realize that they're lacking basic moral concepts and they have never heard of empathy, the person is belittling you when you share a thought or experience, they lack manners while eating, they're constantly complaining or having a negative attitude, they show no interest in you as a person or don't ask questions back... There is so much more, girl
8 months ago | 1
When you realize you can't stand their smell and/or their touch
8 months ago | 3
You don't need to have chemistry in first date. Most of the friends and even exes that I had were pretty awkward beginnings when I just got to know them, but as long as you know the best questions to ask. My problem is me asking open ended questions to get to know you better and you answer with, YES and NO and MAYBE. After me struggling to understand people and managing my social skills, and you can't even give me a story!!!! 😭 And please, let's stop going on first dates thinking all will be perfect. They usually are disasters one way or another....we just have to learn how to put out the fires
8 months ago | 0
First date I’ll call it a meet up it was with a guy on a dating app we met out at a cafe ☕️ to get to know each-other over text I felt we had some type of good communication anyways I got there first the arrived shortly after usually being polite you would find the person and then when you want coffee you’d go up together well I sat down at a table where it was quiet 🤫 and he came around I gave him a side hug 🤗 JSUT saying high and other thing he told me he already ordered his coffee (that was my first red flag 🚩) secondly awkwardly coming and following me along to order me a coffee was just so awkward I had to literally tell him tell me a random fact that we could start conversing gave me some kind of mathematical scientific fact that sounded liek gibberish . Now we sit back at the table I feel bad because he seems to be the only person able to speak about himself idk I find it awkward I feel there nothing to talk about myself let me hear all about you type of thing he get on about what he does what his schooling is like ( I’ll mind you I volunteered earlier that day and yet I still was dressed very nice causal but very nice and he came in sweats and graphic t-shirt 🚩) I feel impressions were everything and he did not come ready to impress lol 😂 he brought up sad topics on our meet up mind you I felt bad that he had to experience that but talking about this on a first meet up . The only back and forth discussion was us debating on politics (he said he likes a girl to challenge ,so when brought up we got into a debate a very good one we were able to listen and hear eachother out ,then share our feedback , but there was no chemistry no ,conversation really ,and major awkward I had to pretend my sister called me and that I needed to start heading out because he was intrested I guess idk 🤷♀️ but we had no chemistry and no conversation he would litterally yawn and stretch out when we would talk which was awkward I kept asking if he was tired we could end things early and he would say no but I JSUT feel to that it was the last hung on his mind coming there anyways deleted all my dating apps afte
8 months ago | 0
l.k.p
which is worst on a first date?
8 months ago | [YT] | 17